how you would know if her love is fading
By leisky_23
@leisky_23 (55)
Philippines
July 12, 2010 6:26am CST
love is a word that having many connotations. and happiness is the best definition of it. but how could we know if your lover doesnt love u at all? based on personal experiences of my other friends, and mine as well. this is the signs if it is fading.
1. She dont enjoy your company anymore.
2. doesnt even asking if you're ok.
3. Never responses "i love you too" when you say i love you.
4. Not saying that she misses you too.
5. You could not feel the tightness of her hugs or doesnt hug you back.
6. She's always in bad mood everytime u will text her
7. Dont want to receive your calls.
8. Shes always hot headed.
9. Shes counting your wrongs and will blame it all to you.
10. And the most obvious she will never let you kiss her in lips.
So sad..and hard to accept but we can never change the truth or even turn back time to make her love you anymore its hard but we just have to accept the truth.
3 responses
@miaka05 (16)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
Oh..really? some of the signs mention is applied to me but my love for him is not fading because until now I still have feelings for him. But when we are still on, I'm always in bad mood and I seldom say "I Love You Too." It's not really I who has the problem. Later on I found out that she had another girl and that was the reason why we broke up.
@leisky_23 (55)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
but did you evaluate yourself why he had find someone else...your attitude towards him? maybe those signs are not true in your case but most are true based on their experiences.. :)
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
12 Jul 10
yes i think you are right. those are all signs that love is fading. also if the person is never the first to try to contact you. and i agree we must accept the truth. we cant force that person to love us back. but we must cheer up if that happens bcs it just mean that that person is not the right one for us^^ we all have someone destined for us so if is not that person will be someone else that will love us more than what that person ever loved us^^
@leisky_23 (55)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
just an advice never push yourself to someone who doesnt love you at all.. it could hurt you even more...
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Jul 10
Bingo....You are bang on target. Currently I have been going through this situation in life. I was about to give you the list...but you have researched well on this. Its hard to accept that she does not love you anymore.
1. You try to put things right but she blames you of being selfish.
2. She does not inform you what she is doing which she used to do earlier.
3. She does not allow you to talk to her parents.
But can this love revive....let me wait and watch.
@leisky_23 (55)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
actually.. nobody's perfect.. maybe we have done wrongs too but she has too.. the thing is, she must have to undesrtand you as well like what you are doing...who knows, one day she'll realize her faults too.. just think positive.. days will go smoother for both you.. wish you goodluck
