I'm single...

By eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
Philippines
July 13, 2010 6:24am CST
I really miss being single. I just realize that I'm not into having any serious relationship as of the moment. I love the feeling that I can concentrate more in making friends and excelling in school. I love my life already. I just want to share my experience.
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10 responses
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
13 Jul 10
I guess you're not aware, but you can do ANYTHING you WANT to do even if you're NOT single. The worst thing about monogamy is that it restricts people from enjoying life instead of ENHANCING it. If you were MY girl friend I would make SURE that you met MORE people that could be your friends than you can do alone. You would be able to excel in school. I would OPEN MORE possibilities for you to enjoy yourself INSTEAD of closing them down. Really. It's about time that people realized that there are MORE options than either being in a couple or being alone.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I wish my ex was like you unfortunately, he's not.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
How am I going to help?
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
13 Jul 10
Thank you. I also wish that there were more people like me. Isn't it strange that humanity has advanced soooo much technologically and that we are still so behind in human relationships. No better than what we read in the Bible. Want to help me try to bring more love to this world ?
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
the problem is money, i don't mind going out or anything but i don't have money, and that's my problem of being single but am free, i believe the sky is the limit, i got no obligation except to my family. i have no girl friend to be worried about, just myself and my family. I am home free
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
That's pretty nice Letran. I always do thought that you were already married.
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
This is nice. There is a time for everything and it is good to enjoy every moment of your life. I'm sure your parents will be glad too. I cannot understand those who are only happy when they are in a relationship. Being single makes life less complicated.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I agree with you. I think being single is an opportunity to flirt with other men... I love everything about me at present.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
5 Oct 11
I'm pretty shock of what I've posted here. Well, I'm no longer single. He's with me for the nth time. I guess we're meant to be together. I'm just happy that he never really gave up on me.
• United Arab Emirates
13 Jul 10
ok...so you are in a relationship now. When you have something you dont value it. but when it goes away you start missing it. I wanted to be in a relation when i was single...but now i too miss being single...
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
We, people do have tendencies to never get contented. There are instances that we miss bein' single and there are instances when we want to have a girl/boyfriend.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I'm not into actually.
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
True!:D Being single provides someone freedom.:D Of course, you're not tied up to any commitment to someone(boyfriend/girlfriend,lover,husband/wife,partner). You can do things in your way and no one would tell you what to do. But in terms of concentration and focus in studying - hmmm, it really depends on the person. There are still a lot of distractions even if someone is single.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
I have to agree with you mac_mac1221. You're username reminds me of my former crush. I'm so happy that I feel s stress free.
@will_win (222)
• India
29 Jul 10
Wow that's great,that's means your having fun with your friends and your must be proud of you.I think its better not to have relation,being in relation it is difficult to maintain good relation.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Yah! I so much agree. There are instances that we think that we're better of if we have partners but it does not apply really to most people.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
13 Jul 10
As a single you are independent and you are your own master. Enjoy your status as single and do not feel guilty that you are not in a relationship.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
Thanks much dpk262006. Now, I can take good care of myself.
@radzlee (77)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 10
i'm now single..my girl friend... with someone else...but now i'm happy coz i can do anything i want to do
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
Congratulations radzlee! You lose her but at the same time you're happy.
• India
13 Jul 10
Yup being single has its own delights to i guess. You can do whatever you want to as your lover won't be there to tell you to do something they like. You can go out wherever you want to, eat what u want, sleep at any time , chat, talk and do pretty much everything when you are single. The greatest advantage is that you can checkout many people when you are still single and no one would throw dirty looks at you or argue with you about the same. One side love is the best love as you can give love to any girl you want to. Or if you are a girl you can like any guy. No 2 straws in one cool drink. That is totally lame. Cell phone bill would also be less. No need to make loans to give gifts. No need to remember the first day we met, day we kissed her/his birthday, valentines day special etc. These are some of the facts i can enjoy being single.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I so much love it! I can relate to every word you say raviteja_ravi84. I guess it's best if I'll enjoy my single life while I'm still busy fixing myself and my career.
• Bangladesh
13 Jul 10
I also enjoy being single...It's a feeling of freedom. I think it helps you to stay away from some pressures or responsibilities that arises with the form of a relationship. Friendship is way good than having bf/gf.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
How long have you been single soulsshine? Now, I'm really happy with my decision.