Do you search for your Exes on Facebook?

@ivygrey (550)
Philippines
July 13, 2010 9:31am CST
Honestly, I did one time. Not that I still have feelings or whatever. But I'm curious what could have happened to them, For those who broke my heart and vice versa. Because I'm very happy now and I really don't care of them anymore. But I was just curios. After seeing them I laughed because of how they have grown big LOL! or sometimes how they have become.. But that's about it. I feel sorry for those who have gone crazy, I mean still don't know what they want to do with their lives, I'm happy for those who have their own family and start being responsible and all. I just thought that these past relationships became parts of our lives once. They actually helped us for who we became now... or maybe not! hahaha!
11 responses
@crisybomb (172)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
yeah i did, until now he is still mysterious about his life. facebook really a good way to search long lost friend/ex/past, and when you've see results of your searches you'll just smile and laugh about the memories you've been together
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
19 Jul 10
Never did that. I don't like the idea to search them, if i have relationship now. When i got bf i'm interested only of him, not for my ex or future guys. When i met my bf he got in facebook one of his last girls as friend. I was very mad, because i knew she broke his heart 2 years ago, but he was still talking with her. That made me very angry, how can u talk with someone who has done something like that to u? At least he deleted her in facebook and skype too, because of me. I think that if u have someone next to u, who makes u happy, u don't need to wear memories from the past. Good memories or not, this is other life, not the life u have now and for me it's the best when one person clean his personality of all he had before and be white like a baby for u. :P
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
14 Jul 10
Yes , I have searched and have a couple of them on my facebook now. But we will never be more than friends now. I will not go through what I went through with them again. But it is nice that we can be friends.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Jul 10
hi ivy I bet I am one of very few people on mylot who do not have an ex or several exes, I came from the old school and you married the man you loved for better or worse and you stayed married and in my case I also stayed in love too. So its hard for me to understand not getting married and having many different relationships or whatever you call living together.So I have nobody that an ex anything. also I bet I am the only one who is not on facebook and does not want to be really.
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
I'm so happy that facebook has no 'who's viewed me' link coz my exes won't probably know I viewed their wall. I also love to search for my bf's xgf hehe. I just find it exciting of what has become of their lives. :)
14 Jul 10
I am not a member of facebook but my husband is, i admit i have been curious as to a few of my exs but not had a look for them, whats in the past should stay in the past i think.
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
i dont bother to check them and why would i if i can just simply concentrate to my new bf than waste my time look for my ex and know what happened to them.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
13 Jul 10
Yes.And when I found it, I will blocked it ASAP.
• United States
13 Jul 10
I have never searched for any of my exes on facebook or any other networking site that I belong to. I happened across one of my exes and since we were both happily married with children at the time, I didn't see any harm in accepting his friend request.. besides we never speak anyway. I have another of my exes.. but that is only because we are still friends. I don't think I'd willingly seek out my exes though.... waste of my time.
• United Arab Emirates
13 Jul 10
we dont actually search...we know they are there and we are more excited to know what are they up to. Its bcos of the fact that we still think about them. I had an ex...she is on my friends list. i uesed to see her profile to see what is she doing and where is she...But i have stopped this since this would only give me pains and nothing else...
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
yad i did it many times... coz i just want to know where they are now, how successful they are now..and how thay look now.. hehe..if hes face is getting better or worst...hahaha