Being a good wife
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
United States
July 13, 2010 10:11pm CST
Being a good wife is not exactly to be a perfect one but simply be yourself for who you are.right?! does being a good wife makes a relationship lasts? what if you are good wife and your husband is not.? then how can a relationship lasts.? does it mean whoever give up first? or just continue being a good wife.? what do you think?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 10
Not easy to be good. To be a good wife, I run all my duty as a wife and not doing something negative. I've made a mistake as a wife, and now I'm trying to make a good wife to do all of my obligations as a wife. It is not easy but I will try very well, so I am happy married life.
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
22 Jul 10
No one is perfect everyone makes mistakes and trying to be a good wife is not that easy. yes you are right. thanks!
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 10
yes true, many schools do not allow students to bring cell phone. If the school my child a cell phone ban, I will not allow my children to bring mobile phones to school. I will allow my child use the phone when not in school. As parents we must follow the rules which have been made by the school.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 10
Sorry I made a mistake in responding to your discussion.
Your right, no one is perfect, very difficult to make a good wife, many challenges to be faced. Sometimes I give in to difficult circumstances, but I tried to get up despite the weight. I'll keep trying it well, so do not make that mistake again.
@nrab_11207 (174)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
being a good wife is relative... but i believe that to be a good wife, one has to first find the right husband. it is never easy to be a good wife if the husband is not the right one for you.
i believe that in order to become a good wife, one has to be right with the Lord first. because God will lead the right husband to you. and then when you have the right husband, it would be easy to submit to him as he submits to the Lord.
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
22 Jul 10
yeah right and there is no trouble everything goes right.!
@ivygrey (550)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
I don't think that being a good wife can make relationships lasts. It takes two to tango. And there's no perfect relationship too, so a good wife and a good husband doesn't assure a perfect relationship so I guess. Everything really depends. but there's nothing wrong about being a good wife.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Aug 10
Well i feel perseverance is greatest quality of a good women as a wife. She can take more care of her husband and adjust and love more than any in this world!!
@joyce318 (139)
• China
14 Jul 10
Everyone has their own conception of being a good wife. A good wife doesn't mean she should bear when her husband has lover. Keeping relationship is the duty for both, not one side.
A good wife should understand her husband, but doesn't follow at his beck and call.
A good wife should respect her husband, but never abandon the priciple of harmony.
No matter the family or their children, the couple should do together and understand each other. When meet trouble or make dicision, negotiate each other.
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
22 Jul 10
yeah right keeping the relationship is a duty for both no just one side. Great comment. thanks!
@annabel_nov (85)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
no, it will never make your relationship last even if you are good wife to your husband. each one of us has our free agency wherein we could decide rightfully or wrongfully and that will happen even in marriage. our decision to be a good wife does not guarantee that our husband will be faithful to us because he has his free agency to devote to the marriage or to be unfaithful. Even if we give our all, it does not guarantee at all. Based on news, some good couple have ended their relationship because of problems that they think divorce is the best solution. But, even if in the end your marriage will not work, just give your loyalty to your spouse 100%. do not ask that your loyalty will be given back to you. just give it, your reward may not be here on earth but in other life as long as you give it 100%
@inday_lorna1970 (1268)
• United States
22 Jul 10
sounds like a martyr?? it would be good if your loyalty be seen by your husband! yes you are right, the reward might not be here on earth but in heaven God will reward you!
