Relationships Online !!!

India
July 15, 2010 11:55am CST
Hey guys !! I was just wondering about it from so many days. Do you think two persons can fall in love with each other when they are just online friends on some social networking site? Do you think chatting on internet can get you a good partner and you can actually start dating with that person? I am just confused about this whole thing. So have you ever experienced anything like such? Do you know anybody whose relationship was started Online? Is there really a future of any such relationship? OMG..so many questions..LOL.. But I am just curious and confused too.. So please Help People and share your views!! Thank you!!
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11 responses
• United States
15 Jul 10
I believe falling in love is possible in any form. Sometimes people fall in love at first sight and have absolutely no clue who that person really is. Hey as long as people are adults and understand that sometimes things are not what they first appeared and or seemed. Life is short and if you go into it with eyes wide open go for it. In the end you have nothing but feelings to lose. So make sure all these questions are directed to whom the person you are chatting with. This way you know more of the person. Good luck!
• India
15 Jul 10
Hey hardworking gurl Well i agree with you that Love is possible in any form. So I guess internet can also be a form for love to happen. ;) Well yes this life is very short and in case of love we dont have much to loose but our feelings. But that can hurt us badly sometimes enough to ruin our whole life. Anyways thanks for sharing your view. Take care :)
• India
15 Jul 10
Hmmm.. you are right. Its all the same thing regardless of place of meeting someone and falling in love. But still I feel that its much hard to trust people online than in real meeting. As its always very easy to fake around, on internet.
• United States
15 Jul 10
So true but wouldn't that also happen with meeting someone in a party, church and or a bar. Same thing. If a person has true feelings with someone who is online treat it as a person who may be just anyone. Ask all the right questions, watch for all the early signs and pretty much that's it. One just has to be cautious. If too skeptical well then one must let it go, still does not mean feelings will be involved.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
16 Jul 10
Hi dear, This topic has been discussed and answered several times before also. Still, I think the same topic has so much of relevance now a days. Now, as you know internet is one the most easy and smooth way to get in touch with others and people spends 18-20 hrs. a day with internet. And they found 20 hrs. is not good enough. A constant touch and continuous talk via internet can be lead to love. But it is not necessary that all that said through the net is to be true and genuine. If both the parties want to get in touch with, they should meet either. Otherwise, can be lead to a good relationship and it will not remain for ever, once they met. So, to develop an affair is a good choice. But to continue is not so important. Once they met each other it is not necessary that both are having the same opinion. We know, many in the internet are not provided their own photo. If at all real, the other persons may not. Also, both re genuine, what they speak out through the comments or net blogging should not match with the real one. Basically, what you speak over the net is not necessarily the real person. But, if some people are ready to do anything via internet is always will lead to such affair. I don't think it will be ever lasting. A break up may follow at any time. Also, will go for a strong relationship also. All are depeds on the people who involved in it. That is important. Regards, Thank-s
• India
16 Jul 10
Yes, its true that it mostly depends on the people who are involved. All though I believe that its much more easier to fake oneself on internet than in real meeting. But there are some good examples around us who succeeded in their relationships which started on internet. So we have to be careful I guess in such cases. Well thanks for sharing your views. Take care :)
• India
19 Jul 10
Hi dear, Thanks for your response. We can expect people can make use such facility for a good and better way of life. Regards, Thank-s
@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
16 Jul 10
No you can only familiar with people online not fall in love you can meet people in real life then do something together and maybe then you can fall in love It is real. I know people who had find they soulmates in Internet love sites also I have seen and heard many proofs. It depends from people If he want It they can do It. Do not be confused just do what you need to do and maybe you would me luckily. Take care, Have a nice day!
• India
17 Jul 10
Well it depends mostly on people. Some are really serious while some can just be having fun and they dont take it seriously at all. While there are some re fakers and thats most dangerous part of online chatting. Anyways Thanks for sharing your views. Take care :)
• India
16 Jul 10
it is fun ,can be enjoyed
• India
16 Jul 10
Well obviously it is fun and can be enjoyed until and unless you dont involve your feelings in it. If its just for the sake of time pass and fun, its really great. But when it comes to feelings, it may hurt. So be careful. Lol. Take care :)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
Of course it is possible.People fall in love at any place, at any time but not always at the right place and at the right time.Beware of fakers both online and personal.
• India
16 Jul 10
Well yes , love is blind and can happen over anywhere. But there are some people who fakes and ruins its charm. And faking on internet is a cake walk for anybody. Anyways thanks for responding. take care :)
@veganbliss (3895)
• Adelaide, Australia
16 Jul 10
My wife & I have been happily married for over five years now. We met online & it started from there. We were living nearly 2000 kilometers apart in different states at the time. You have to be prepare to put in a lot of effort, but the rewards last a lifetime. The system works well; what you must ask yourself is: are you up for the challenge? Cross-culture relationships are difficult at the best of times & more patience, tolerance & understanding than usual will be required. But we've done it & wish you & yours All the Best as well :-)
• India
16 Jul 10
Wow!!! I am really glad to hear your story mate. Its the first time I have listened in person from someone who has made out of an online relationship. Great!! Yeah I know it takes a lot of effort to make everything work in such relationships. That too when you are so much far apart and cant see each other actually. I guess Mutual Trust and understanding is the key for it. I am sure you are a man of efforts. Its worth appreciation. Well thanks for your wishes . I hope everything will be best :) thanks for sharing your story. Take care :)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Jul 10
yes you can fall in love. i have know a friend of mine who was in the UK. she fell in love on chat came down to India and married. She was an indian. She made the arrangements to take him to th UK but latern she came to know that this person was already married. She then went through depression and finally divorced him and now she is happily married with a kid.
• India
15 Jul 10
Oh .. that is a good real life example Edward. So atleast there is a real possibilty to fall in love, chatting. I thought people dont take such things much seriously and they chat or even flirt online just for fun , time pass and all. But this is a really a good incident in support of relationships online. Although its sad that the person for whom she did so much,was not much loyal and she got ditched in love. Indeed its hard to trust people online. Anyways, thanks for sharing it buddy. take care :)
@veganbliss (3895)
• Adelaide, Australia
16 Jul 10
My wife & I have been happily married for over five years now. We met online & it started from there. We were living nearly 2000 kilometers apart in different states at the time. You have to be prepare to put in a lot of effort, but the rewards last a lifetime. The system works well; what you must ask yourself is: are you up for the challenge? Cross-culture relationships are difficult at the best of times & more patience, tolerance & understanding than usual will be required. But we've done it & wish you & yours All the Best as well :-)
@veganbliss (3895)
• Adelaide, Australia
16 Jul 10
My wife & I have been happily married for over five years now. We met online & it started from there. We were living nearly 2000 kilometers apart in different states at the time. You have to be prepare to put in a lot of effort, but the rewards last a lifetime. The system works well; what you must ask yourself is: are you up for the challenge? Cross-culture relationships are difficult at the best of times & more patience, tolerance & understanding than usual will be required. But we've done it & wish you & yours All the Best as well :-)
@chayne12 (13)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
hey. i have learned many people and friends whose relationships started online. for me, i dont believe that people fall in love in online chatting. but i believe that a woman can feel a likeness to a man through online chatting. the way the man converse with a woman online is one of the factors that a woman is looking for in a partner. i dont believe in falling in love online only a feeling of likeness online.
• India
15 Jul 10
Oh yeah, i got your point. Its like likeness can be developed through chatting but love is not all that easy, when you are just online friends. Good point. Thanks for sharing dear . Take care :)
• Canada
18 Jul 10
It would be a little weird for me.. Online dating isn't my thing. But anything's possible. Yes I believe two people dating online can fall in love. There are so many different ways you can fall in love so of course I'm not going to deny that. Actually my cousin met a guy online, she talked to him for years just on the computer. Last year they got married! My auntie also met her husband online. So online relationships can work, its just about whatever feels right for you.