Have you acted stupid?

That was weird, asking your spouse to bring that person back in your life? I can't do that. What i remember before was, I stalked my crush way back in college and I really wanted to say hi to him, I want him to noticed me. So I followed him and I called him, he turned around with a large question mark on his face because I know his name and I said hi, I introduced myself and he can't barely move but accept my hand, shake it and asked my name. When he asked my name, I said "never mind" and then I walked away with a large smile on my face. i even checked on him when I was far and I left him there hanging and wondering around. I also remember another one, when I received a news that my crush at work will be getting married. I called him and says congratulations when we bumped on each other at work and I said you broke my heart and walked away again. I left him wondering too. I was so stupid i know.

ohh godd :( ask that to the current husband? that would be so bad :( poor him.if i loved a guy that wasnt my husband i would end the marriage right away i wouldnt ask him help to have that guy back that would be very cruel for my current hubby :( but where did you see this? you know someone that did this?:( ohh god how the poor guy would feel? he would be very angry and hurt for sure :(

That is one of the MOST insensitive things I have ever heard!!! Sounds like it is time to dissolve the marriage & let the chips fall where they may!!!! Why would anybody get married if they were still in love with a past relationship??? If you did this to your spouse, SHAME on you!!! If your spouse did this to you, HUGGGG I'm soooo sorry!!!! If it's someone you know, tell them to run like hell!!!!! There is NO way this could be a good situation for anybody involved!!!

is this some kind of a joke? maybe your wife will kick you for that... well i know that feeling... i'am into 7yrs relationship already as bf/gf but he still not talking about married. i really wanted to let go or broke up with him but i can't i'am really head over heels inlove with him. maybe time will come. i just need be a little bit patient.

That happend to me a time ago. So, the person was not willing to marry with me and i was very sad. But then i realise that wasn t good for me and i am glad i didnt insist.

Yes I did but now I am feeling shame of myself. I know these thing well and not do this again.

Ask your wife to win the person you love? So you're not in love with your wife? I'm sorry man but I'm head over heels in love with my wife so I can't really relate to this. But if you must know this is indeed a stupid thing to do. It's like digging your own grave. Good luck with it though.

well i'm not married yet and i don't plan to marry someone that i don't love, so i don't have to get in this situations. :D

aww, I feel bad for the spouse. in my case yes I have done something stupid with regards to love. I almost threw out a 7 year relationship because of it. now I'm happily married and so is the guy.

I have fallen in love with people who I thought I would marry but they didn't feel a thing for me. But nooo, have never been married to someone and suddenly thought about those past crushes and asked my current husband to help me bring them back in my life...that just seems a bit extreme...

it's stupidity of course. how could you dare tell your spouse about that thing? aren't you in love with your spouse that you want other person to bring back into your life. where is your head? i think you need a psychiatrist.