BF ain't going to his girl's place

Philippines
July 15, 2010 6:29pm CST
Hey.. How would you find if your man refuses to meet the parents of her girlfriend?! DOes this mean that he's not so into with the girl or just too fearful meeting with the parents of her gf? I know it always depend on the situation but for my experience I got this xbf who doesn't want to get into my place because I told him not to coz my parents are strict. But does this mean he is not courageous enough to go to our house and meet with my parents at his own will?
5 responses
@zel2zel (134)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Well, you told him not to come, right? I think he was just following your orders. That is what you call an obedient boyfriend, oh -exboyfriend. But in my case, I also told my ex before that my parents are also strict, but he insisted in meeting them. And yeah, he never met them because I immediately broke up with him.
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
ROFL! You broke with him coz he insisted to meet with your parents? well, for me I just want to test my x at that time if he is that serious enuf to meet my parents. But he never insisted and just leave it there.
• Portugal
16 Jul 10
aww zel you broke up with him bcs he wanted to meet your parents? but why? :( maybe he just wanted to meet them to tell them how much he loved you for sure :( you shouldnt had broken up with him bcs that reason. thats so sad. i would be very sad if i was that guy. also me if i had a bf and he insisted to meet my parents i would let him i wouldnt break up bcs a reason like that i think that when we love someone really really we must break up just when the person does something really bad like cheat :(
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
17 Jul 10
Now a days boys are courageous and they does not hesitate to meet the girl parent but I think in your case since you have told him that your parent are strict he does not want to get insulted during his first meeting to your parent.
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
But I guess that's a lame excuse not to meet with them. I think if the boy really falls for you then he wouldn't mind of any insults from parents.
@_Honey_ (781)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
I think it would be best if our guy mylotters answer this question but in my opinion, the guy doesn't insist to meet your parents yet is that he's not yet ready to meet them too. I think meeting the parents is something very sacred that you don't need to rush doing it that easy. Take some time and see for yourself if he finds himself ready to meet the people he have to thank for bringing you into this wonderful world. :)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
I believe so.. Just have to wait till he decides when he's ready, I believe that its important to meet the parents coz it would make things less complicated.:)
@ip5217 (1655)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
With your case I think it's because you instructed him not too. Generally if a man doesn't want to visit your home and meet your family, often times the reason is he's not really that serious with you.
• Portugal
16 Jul 10
well i dont know. you said your parents are strict so for sure he was afraid that they say bad to you about him or something. but sure i think he should go there and meet them and say that he really loves you so that way they wouldnt think bad about him. also if he really loves you is ok if they say bad bcs we do sacrifices for the person we love right? and for sure meet the parents of the person you are with is important^^ sooner or later you will have to face them so^^