Why there are people that so insecure?

One thing i know is,they feel insecure for things that they envied from other person. They want friends,but they can't be good friend either. They want people to praise them,but they don't excel to be praised of. They want to compete with the other person,but,they don't want to play fair,so,they will go for making stories to put down a person on their benefit. People who are insecured doesn't have faith on themselves. Those are the kind of people who doesn't know how to considerate other people. Above all,they are the kind of people who never knows how to accept their mistakes,but,keep looking for other's mistake. That's my opinion with insecured people.

I share your dilemma. =( I've had my fair share of insecure rumor-mongering people who did nothing but tell things about me when I was in my first two years in college. A lot of people don't even know me, but now they do because of what they told them about me which were all lies. They're making me popular but I really don't like it and I don't want to achieve that through what they're doing. What's worse is that they also tell those nasty things about me to my friends. I really don't care what they think me or what they're saying about me to other people. I just don't like it when they include my friends with their scheme. Of course my friends won't believe them. But I don't want to take chances and let them ruin my friendship with my friends. I wish they weren't like that. I wish they would leave me alone. But I guess it's what they want to do right? That's why I just completely ignore them and tell my friends to do the same.

they are not love that's the reason that they are insecure. they have not feel the love of their parents that's why they're acting like that. They have not love God rather they love the opposite. They need love and the best thing you can do for that person is to offer your love to them. Even if they hurt you, you have to tell them you love them, so, they will understand that someone still cares for them. Never treat negative with a negative, rather, do the opposite. Love them even if they hurt you badly. You should set a good example to them, so that they will know their faults and will enlighten that what they did to you is wrong. Just be nice to them.