what do u do when you hurt a lot???

India
July 16, 2010 12:44pm CST
sometimes you maybe hurt by your parents or friends in such sitivations what do u think about them.Do you feel happy or sad if they hurt you.
11 responses
• United Arab Emirates
16 Jul 10
I see motivational videos of Anthony Robinns, Wayne Dyer Robert Kioski etc. I motivate myself from these videos. I keep my mind out of the problems.,
• India
16 Jul 10
can u tell me where can i find this videos
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
16 Jul 10
I guess few people would feel happy when they are hurt by their parents or friends. Personally speaking, I would feel depressed when I am hurt by my parents or friends. But in that case I would carefully consider the reason. If their aim was to help me but their conduct hurt me, I would quickly shift moods and the depression would only last for a little time.
• India
16 Jul 10
ya i can understand your feelings .........thanku for your reply
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
i encountered hurting by afriend, i never imagine she can hurt me that much, betraying me, causing a lot of pain considering her as my one and only best friend
• India
16 Jul 10
ya it causes so painful when they hurt us....Even being sad is not a solution for that just take it easy and keep smiling..........enjoy the life
@swn_chik (266)
• India
29 Jul 10
I 'm so childish,you know what I think? I think that they don't love me anymore.As I get easily hurt, I break down and once tears roll down my eyes it becomes somewhat impossible for me to control.So I always try to hide this from other by avoiding them.
@xylem916 (95)
• India
29 Jul 10
It is so painful when somebody hurt you. For me when my parents and friends hurt me I just staying happy and I don't feel any bad things to them. I think myself that this thing are due to my pass deeds.
11 Aug 10
Definitely would feel hurt as the main emotion, as well as some anger, frustration, and guilt. It's hard when you don't know what exactly to do to relieve the situation, but from experience I've found that holding onto those emotions are just as harmful in the long run, and they can create just as much havoc and problems not dealing with them.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
17 Jul 10
i just express myself to them and its up to them do with it as they want. but if it keeps happening then i will cut ties with the person for awhile or for good
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
21 Jul 10
I cry and wipes the worries, then i feel relaxed.
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
Sad and angry too. That's why when I'm hurt I just distance myself from the persons who caused it. I just find a place where i could be alone so I could just cry and not talk about it with anyone. It's only when I'm done crying that I finally talk about it to someone i trust so that I'm already in the right state of mind so as not to say or do something that would hurt them back.It's always the saddest thing when these people closest to you end up hurting you.But it just won't help if you also try to avenge your wounded heart
• China
18 Jul 10
I had a good friend once , I trust him very much . I tell him every thing I know .But I found he cheat me of my money some times . He always borrow me money , but he seldom return the money to me . So I feel sad and never keep in touch with him .
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
16 Jul 10
It`s impossible to feel good, you can only feel bad in situations like this. When someone hurts me, i ask myself why they done that, why they made me hurt. But after i calm down, and passes some time, i get better, and i try not to think about that anymore, because it makes me sad. I try to do anything not to think about that, i listen some music, watch a movie, read something.