What can I do to make you My Woman ^-^

@mrfdg1972 (3237)
Philippines
July 16, 2010 11:25pm CST
I cant seem to decode the Woman's World so I have to ask the LADIES, with your permission can you share us thing what is really goin' inside your minds and/or hearts. Lately,I have been having a hard time discussing some few things with my wife, like, what clothes to wear, what soap should we use, should we allow our eldest daughter for time out with friends, she's 15 now. I cleaned the bathroom with a strong acid and she hates that. setting aside the night-- she's always tired and too sleepy. She was not this way before...could she be seeing some else or maybe she is in love with another guy? I need your most intimate answers please.
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@cheszka (167)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
She's just probably not feeling okay. Ask her how she feels, ask what's bothering her and inquire about her health. There are lots of factors to consider why your wife is reacting that way. It's not alright to just jump into conclusion that she's having an affair or in love with someone else. You have to probe deeper, it could be stress at work that's causing her to act that way, or it probably has something to do with age, hmm... I guess you know what I mean. Try to stay positive, it will help if you will just keep quiet about your assumptions of her. Just be observant, and asking a few questions from her close friends or colleagues will probably unravel the cause of the problem.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
That's a relief I am glad to hear that, she is a little tired i guess she is working in a canteen right now, it is her first time to actually have a job, i will ask her when she arrives, shes out right now with some old school friends..
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
I almost forgot ... Welcome to My lot
@cheszka (167)
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
Thanks :)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
Perhaps you have tried to hurt her.. On my own experience, my husband tried to hurt me once and then I started feel so cold for him. And then he noticed it and changed. He did everything to have a good relationship with me again. Until now we never fight, and I feel like he loves me more than before. Maybe living your daily lives with no fighting or arguments between the two of you may help to love each other more and more.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
You are right, i should ask her that question? Did I hurt her? But what about my feeling i am hurt too, i am so hurt .......Welcome to My lot
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
Sometimes girls are being silly. She only thought of her feeling, not knowing that remembering how she feels makes her forget how her partner feels too... And vice versa to what guys done to girls with the same situation.
@TheAdvocate (2392)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
Being tired and sleepy every night does not always mean that there is someone else. I find it funny that a guy is saying this, because that's what we ladies always think when our men give us this excuse. Maybe she is tired and sleepy from working. The best way is to schedule an alone time and talk to her. You might be surprised by what she says. From your narration, you seem to depend on her on a lot of things. I can understand you wanting to discuss the discipline of your daughter, but to discuss what clothes to wear and soap to use (I assume this is for you), don't you think that's too much sharing? If I were in her place, I would be exhausted too. Just my few cents worth on your predicament.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
whoa thanks
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Well hmm she must be tired because shes been doing a lot of work lately or maybe she has some issues in her life right now. Whatever may be the case just ask her about and try to communicate with her more and you could always be romantic with her too. Women always love that because it reminds us that we are loved. You can also try calling her pretty.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
It works, i call her pretty. So Ladies, you want us to call you pretty all the time, i think i can do that. to add,, does it mean when you are tired you forget about about everything. Is sit tiring for the ladies to sit 8 hours in an air conditioned room and just answer calls from the telephone. its not like a non ending calls, i asked her how many calls she get from one day, she said average of 5-8 call w/in an hour.
@Dezzaan (80)
• Sweden
17 Jul 10
If you are concerned about your relationship and thinks she is seeing someone else you should talk to her about that. That's the best way. Tell her what you feel because she can't read your mind and maybe she is not at all aware that you are feeling this way. You need to be able to talk to each other about these kind of stuff, or else the relationship won't work. I wish you all the luck!
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
We always talk, but we always ends up debating, i think its time that i lost the debate, but if i remember it right i told her how i feel and i am not comfortable how our relationship is going on for the moment. So i will tell her again, just as soon as she arrives, i hope she is not drunk, what if shes drunk?? can i approach a woman/my wife even she is a little drunk or tipsy?
• Sweden
18 Jul 10
of course you CAN approach her even if she's a little drunk or tipsy, but it might not be a good idea. You can do some stupid stuff while you're drunk and it is a lot better to talk about this again when you are both sober.
@floris (26)
• China
17 Jul 10
hi ,guy. why not do some conmunicate work with your wife.maybe it's cause the boring usual days....
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
Hellow Floris, it really been boring this last few weeks, and i mean realllly boring. I got your idea,,BTW Welcome to Mylot
@eil_noz (963)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
Well, that seems too weird for you maybe, seeing her act some unusual things. I guess that having conclusions that she's in love just because she's always tired and sleepy. Now that makes me laugh. I'm also a teen like your daughter and I guess such basis wouldn't really be effective for you to know whether your daughter is in love. It's merely a part of growing up to change a little bit of one's lifestyle. I think your daughter isn't in love yet. Usually, a girl might possibly be in love if she always has a good mood and always happy. I guess that those can be the most dominant trait in order for you to determine whether she's in love.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
my mind is a bit bubbly when it comes to girls, my brain is too exhausted thinking of running our farm business, i just hope they would just say what is in their mind so i would not have to do a decoding.