feelings...
By saraines
@saraines (154)
United States
July 18, 2010 7:38am CST
I was with someone for 2 1/2 yrs, we broke it off but there was still something pulling us together, and no it was not only the intimacy part....it was something stronger, now after a few yrs of trying to stay away, they tell me it's truly over, that it has been over for a while and that there are no more feelings towards me, other than a friendship...I don't get that feeling however, am i being wishful at thinking they have feelings for me still but refuse to admit it, or could my senses be leading me right? I am doing my best to make believe i am moving on, but it's not easy, this has been and will always be my one and only true love...ever...Advice is welcome...
3 responses
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
18 Jul 10
Maybe you think this person is your soul mate. If so you could discuss what went wrong in the past and what could be better in the future if you two got back together. You need to know the other person's true feelings. There is no harm in staying friends if really there is no romance left. Time is something quite healing but a person never forgets his or her soul mate. Good luck.
@suraj14u452 (102)
• India
18 Jul 10
i am a student and cannot say any thing what is good or what is bad but give another try !!! do not feel any ego !!! sorry if i told anything wrong!!!
@Mztika (9)
• United States
18 Jul 10
It seems that you are in denial. You do still have feelings for this person. If you are not with someone else, and neither or they, then why don't you tell this person how you really feel? Maybe, these feelings are there for a reason. If it has been years, and you still feel for this person, then chances are you might need to re-open the relationship. I don't know all the details, but it seems to me that if you have found true-love, then don't run from it!(: You should capture that special golden prize and savor it. I wish you the best in your situation.
@saraines (154)
• United States
19 Jul 10
TY for your response...things are more complicated than that, they are with someone else at the time...this person also knows how i feel, i don't think they will ever understand to what extent, i don't even think i knew how deep the love i have inside for this person went...it's just confusing, every time i have tried to run, i can see it in their eyes that they want me to stay, which is the main reason why i don't understand why they keep fighting it...the worst thing about it, is that my godson is their kid, so i cannot just move away, the kid is too attached to me, so as you can see it is kind of a complicated situation...
