What if following your heart would hurt someone else?

@hanagi (390)
Philippines
July 19, 2010 8:29am CST
I have heard this line from a trailer of an upcoming love story movie. Then I realize if I was trapped in that situation where I love someone else but I am in the arms of someone who loves me. It is a very difficult situation since you don't know which one you should choose. How about you? Did this kind of situation ever occur to you? Which one did you choose? Are you happy with your decision?
7 responses
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
5 May 11
Love is pure, it's beautiful and honest. You can not love and at the same time wrong. When you love, really, man or woman, can not be open to more roads. Love is feeling and why you feel that being single can you get them from giving love and your body. A great joy surrounds you and no bad or doubtful thought crosses your mind is not. Never in doubt love, duplicity or sale not to give way. When you love, you're head in the clouds float above all things and beings and are devoted to the last cell of your being loved. To believe that you loved when you are wrong, the mind, when your door opens another door just after dark, is really your great sorrow, your great pain, because you can not feel that love is what brings together. And then the moment living in an existence which try to give a sense, you warrant to you, then you say that you know and like experiences. There is desirable. Hurt and leave marks that sometimes do not disappear again.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Aug 10
I will never do things that hurts my heart and others.
• United States
21 Jul 10
Well hear it goe's I can't use names so yes i was with someone and I belived I loved her alot then my old GF was getting married and i never had sx with her but we were always's close so she said something to my new GF that she had to be sure she still didn't love me she ask her to have sx with me .. My new Gf said ok after it all was over with I stayed with new GF for around 5 years but in my heart I new i should have stayed with the old one ..She has been with the same man now for awhile but she alway's whant's to hook up me now i'm married and don't belive in cheating....
• Portugal
21 Jul 10
didnt happen to me yet. but if im with a guy that loves me so much and i love other guy i would have to tell him the truth. even if it hurt him i cant lie bcs he loves me so much wouldnt deserve a lie :( also a fake love. if i loved other guy even if he didnt love i would leave my bf bcs i cant lie to him. why would we choose that person? we all deserve to be loved as much as we love that person so that would be the right to do. anyway thats so sad that situation. wish it never happens.
@Lunar01 (151)
• United States
20 Jul 10
The most simple advice always work: "Go with what your heart tells you." If you are with someone who you don't love then it will never be you who are truly happy. Remember that first and foremost, you are the chief reason for your happiness. Never put someone else before your own happiness, that's just the ingredient for a sad relationship. Both parties need to be happy on their own accord, not dependent or obsessed with each other.
@Ashton1 (32)
• Bhutan
21 Jul 10
The situation is difficult to handle. I would rather listen to my heart and be with someone whom I love rather than being with someone who loves me. Although it might sound not to good but it's better to be sorry for sometime then be sorry for the rest of your life. We do not want to live with this feeling that, if only I could have done this, I would be here and all that stuff. It will also be difficult dor a person to know that you wanted to be with someone else but because of your love, i had to be with you. I hope I don't get such person in my life.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
19 Jul 10
First, I've never experienced this situation and I hope that this would happen to me. But if time really tested me and this happened to me, then I would leave the one I'm with and go for that man. If that man doesn't love me back, then I'd rather to choose to leave both of them and give them the chance to find the right persons whom they will love and will love them in return too.