What is the secret of happily married couples?

@hushi22 (4927)
July 19, 2010 9:27am CST
So far in the new environment I am with right now, I seldom find a couple who are happily married. Most are broken or not married but with children. Hmmm... I like a happy ever after fairy tale. Would you mind to share with me your secret?
10 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Aug 10
True love and trust without expectations.
@bkrm_gupt (219)
• India
31 Jul 10
Have shared interest.sharing interest and idea with the partner is one of the activities of happy couples i think so.staying together find things that both enjoy doing.Before we had children my husband and i enjoying four wheeling in husband car.
@abhi000 (234)
• India
23 Jul 10
In love there is a many types but the love should be true and worthy.To lead happy married couples, from both side have to be faithful,respect,understanding,trust and honest to each other.Happy married does not need an extra ordinary to lead,by naturally fall in peace we have to created by ourselves.
@kshp_dpk (213)
• India
23 Jul 10
To have a happy married life there should be love and care between partner.If there is love and care then naturally the life will be happy. If girl or boy can understand each others problem then there is not need to worried about that.The main thing is that we should have trust,respect,care,understanding and honest among our self.Then I am sure that there is nobody can created misunderstanding between us.
• United States
23 Jul 10
It means you are willing to do anything for that person! There are no favors, and you don't expect anything back. You just want to do everything that would make the person happy and not hurt. You want to spend every moment with that person and create even more happy and special memories. You want to learn even more about that person and make sure that person is okay and just fine. If you truly knew your husband, you would know exactly what he was feeling on the inside even though he was trying his best to hide it. You would always tell him the truth no matter how scary and hurting it is. You will be able to share his favorite things with them and learn to love them as much as he does. Always, always tell them how much you love them and how much you are happy that they are your in your life. Always tell them how proud you are that they are doing a good job of working and they are trying their best. Always show emotion towards that person, don't hide it at all! Show them you love them dearly and you will never ever leave them alone. Tell them you will protect them, that you will support them, and that you will cry with them. You would risk your life for them. That person is the most amazing thing you ever laid eyes on. You have to try your best to work things out, and it's suppose to be something extra special you two go through. You are suppose to be best friends, lovers, and a lovely husband and wife. You have to always keep faith and never give up. You are not suppose to let anything tear you apart! You work at it and everything be worth it at the end. You love everything about the person. You don't see flaws, and everything on that person just makes your heart flutter like crazy and love them even more. You are willing to even go through scary experiences with them! Nothing is never ever letting me run away and give up like that! I would do anything for my husband, and he would definitely do the same for me.
• India
26 Jul 10
Actually to lead a happily married life , the first and foremost things is that both husband and wife should have equal love , care and understanding within them. There should be cooperation between husband and wife, without understandings or coperation one cannot lead a happy married life. So to live happily after married means we should have respect, love and care.
• United Arab Emirates
19 Jul 10
For a happy married life..the husband should be deaf and the wife blind....Just kidding. Marriage is building a bridge between the differences of each other. Mind it the bridge is not easy, you will face a lot of the currents and the flow of water is always heavy.
@Skade24 (749)
• Romania
19 Jul 10
Hmm...the trust is important, where is no trust, there is no love. Th understanding, the onesty, the respect, and finally, love, in my opinion.
@sandyme (200)
• India
19 Jul 10
There is no secret for that its love and love has its own meaning in the word "LOVE" love means loving,helping your partner,being with him/her always,loving him/her so much. You are always happy if 2 partners trust each other . Don't blame each other for any fault . Don't ever try to break your partner's heart if you did ask sorry for that . These are the little things we should know there are more but i think you know them well because you are a lover too . Good luck . Stay happy always .
@krnavtr (285)
• India
23 Jul 10
people get marry because they think that they can live happily with their partners. But on the other hand u know like divorce happens because they stop trusting, understanding between themselves. And also they get fade up with the same faces....like we wish to have different curry at different time. Which is a very bad decisions indeed. So if u really want to end your life like ever after fairy tale, then understanding, trust, scarifies is must. Then m sure there is no thing who can create any misunderstanding in your relation or we can be marriage.