feel about ex -lover
@vijaisrirangan (103)
India
July 19, 2010 1:01pm CST
thinking about the ex lover will give you the hard feelings sometimes. but it is unavoidable. but sometimes ,some one will get mad and the at last end up with revenge on thier ex lover.
do you think is it good take revenge on ex lover. even the ex lover is good or bad, why such hard decision is taken to revenge on them. what are the effects?
6 responses
@phoenix867 (182)
• India
3 Aug 10
When I think about my ex boyfriend I became totally upset because the plan that I have made was unsuccessful.I could be his friend and even I can't be his future partner.I can give him a good company like when he felt board I won't let feel lonely.I will always there for guide him.
@cheszka (167)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I just try to forget an ex love and move on, in the soonest possible way. Never did I take revenge on any of my ex boyfriends. I think for those who take revenge, they usually are the ones who end up losing in the long run.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Jul 10
If you ask me...i would say no. What will achieve when you take revenge. Will that make you happy and will that make you forget your ex lover.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
19 Jul 10
is not good for sure. bcs revenge is an obsessive feeling. that wont let you think in nothing else also will destroy who you are. if your ex left you or cheated even if you are hurt you must not take revenge just leave the person. thats the best thing. we must find someone else to give us real love. we must not let that feeling come to us and if it get we must forget it. revenge is a bad thing.
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
19 Jul 10
I used to think about my ex every now and then. I ran into him a few months ago while visiting my mom. Man oh man was I surprised at how he looked! He gained so much weight and one of the reasons he didn't like me was because I was fat. I was happy to see him but the bitter feelings as to why he had left were still there. Well first of all he said I left him (yeah right). He said he changed but I found out he still messes around. There were so many more things that I had asked myself over the years but honestly I came home thinking how thankful I am for my present husband. I never wished revenge on him but now I am thankful that God never gave us kids, we would have made their life miserable. It took almost 20 years to find answers so now I can die in peace. lol.
@otsxots (11)
• Philippines
19 Jul 10
yes i do think about that at times, but i don't feel anything to harm him or do bad things on him. i prefer being good friends with them, cause if you're not, you're still caustic, and this may give him a hint that you still have feelings for him and you may argue or he may snob you which feels weak.
