How Often Do You Borrow Money From Your Parents Now That You Are An Adult?

@Ezra710 (135)
United States
July 19, 2010 3:34pm CST
It has been a few years since I borrowed money from my mom. I paid her back and more. I know some people who have a job and home, but spend like there is no tomorrow. They have been borrowing their parents life savings with no intention of paying them back. They just keep spending. Is this a common thing nowadays with such economic uncertainty? Should you , as an adult be paying your own way?
3 responses
@babymc23 (153)
• Philippines
19 Jul 10
Hi! Since I started working 3 years ago, I only borrowed money from my mom once or twice. Usually, my mom borrows from me but I rarely ask her to pay me back. She does keep a list though and she asked me to do the same. I guess, right now, we should all be wary of our spending habits. My mom used to nag me about my money and she is right. What I usually do right now is to have a budget and save something first and what is left is what I will spend. Times are tough right now, borrowing is not bad but I guess, we just have to be responsible and pay it back in a timely manner, irregardless of who we borrowed from. Have a great day!
@Ezra710 (135)
• United States
20 Jul 10
You are on the right track babymc. You have a good mom, in that you can talk about this. It is a good, fundamental priciple with money to have a budget. Save first before you start spending. I know it is difficult, but another goal to set for your savings is to have $1,000 dollars in savings set aside just for emergencies. I have struggled to reach this mark , but I am almost there. I have had to change the way I spend money and deny myself some things, but having that money as a reserve gives me some comfort and less worry. The trick is to resist the temptation to take it out. You want to keep that as an emergency fund only. When you reach that goal , then keep saving. Saving is saving, no matter the amount and in time it will grow. Here is a reminder about borrowing money, from a friend or from a finacial institution. The borrower is always the slave to the lender. As long as you owe someone money, they have some sort of control over your life.
@babymc23 (153)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
Hi Ezra! Congratulations on almost meeting your goal. I know you will be able to reach it sooner or later. As for me, even if I try to stay within but budget but often times I slip.lol! I am still working on that one though. I actually am trying to invest my money in a few business ventures every now and then. I do this since I had a bad experience with a local bank that closed. I had a time deposit savings on that bank. Good thing though, I am just waiting for them to pay me back. You have a great idea though about emergency funds. I never really looked at it that way. Thanks for the idea! Have a great day!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Aug 10
I dont get from them now, rather i give them now!!
@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
21 Jul 10
Since im a 21 year old college student and I live w/ my parents I don't ask for their money because they pay the bills, my only responsibility is to give them $50 a month for my cell phone an cable bill, so they ask for money from me. lol.