Why are men more likely to cheat???

@ANIME123 (2466)
United States
July 19, 2010 9:22pm CST
Ok so I asked a question here on mylot called Have You Ever Been Cheated On and for the ones who answered the question and shared their story thank you very much. Still welcomed to do so and share your stories. Well anyway I asked that question to prove this one why are men more likely to cheat because women are my loyal. Still why do men always have this desire to cheat on women it's not fair they hurt many in doing this. Still not all men are the same and am thankful to the ones that are loyal. Cheating is never good it always hurts your partner nothing good ever comes out of it. If you no longer want to be with someone break up with them don't go cheating behind their backs that's just disgraceful. I do not like cheating at all. Always be faithful temptation can always be fought off.
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9 responses
• Malaysia
20 Jul 10
Well, ever heard of insecurity? Most human being are certainly not confident about what they already possessed and have in their life. As what Mr. Hiccup said, "Men cheat, Women cheat." I agree with that. Further more women will make lots of noise when they are cheated but men mostly will keep silence about it. What tend for people to cheat, especially in relationship? Mostly because of the temptation, seductions and self confidence towards their spouse. Bear in mind, these are all back to faith and I would like to say, within this cheating/cheated relationships, like what said in the movie The Love Guru "Fate is a Joke". It's all up to us to decide. As someone who are in a relationship, put in confidence towards each others and never doubt. Of course there's somehow there are silver linings, but there are no problem without solution. Cheating or cheated, it's not buyous towards men only. Women also do.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Yes I have heard of insecurity and it does play a part in people cheating. One must always fight temptations no matter what and be faithful.
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
I've been cheated by my husband twice and the other woman is also married. So I agree that men cheat but women do the same thing. I believe that nobody is perfect, maybe men and women has their own reason on why they cheat on their partners. I love my husband that's why i accept his reasons and forgive him.
• Portugal
20 Jul 10
yes i agree with what you said. if they want to be with someone else they must say and they break up. why they cheat? bcs they want more than one girl. bcs when they love someone else sometimes they say ohh im afraid to tell my wife bcs she loves me so much and i will hurt her and they love someone else and be with that person and with wife at same time. but if they love someone else their wives are living a lie so they must tell. even if they get hurt at least they know the truth. anyway there are also women that cheat on men too and yes thats good that all guys are not same^^
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Yes a guy must always be honest with his wife and his girlfriend. Yes women do cheat too. I am also glad that not all guys are the same.
@med889 (5941)
20 Jul 10
I also fail to understand how can a partner cheat on the other and I am stunned to see if a partner has been sharing life for many years with someone can allow himself to cheat on that woman! This is disgusting for me, I believe it is better to talk and walk instead of run against many unanswered questions. When a woman loves, she loves with the heart and she means it, when she sleep with someone, she has feelings for that person and woman dreams a lot but it is cruel for men to take advantage of that cheat on woman. Not all men are alike and neither are women but cheating is really bad, it hurts a lot.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Cheating does hurt a lot I also find it disgusting how a partner could cheat on someone it's just not right. Women do love from their hearts and are truly loyal that's why it is cruel.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
For me because the men are small society than a woman that's why more are immoral men than women.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
I see what you are saying their is more women than men. Men just have desires I guess so.
• India
20 Jul 10
I feel bad to hear that. It may be true, but not always the case. We should learn to hear our mind and heart apart to be clear. Men just confuse between them and often take wrong decisions. Hope things get better. :)
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
I know it's not always the case sometimes women cheat, but not as often because they don't feel like they have to.
• United States
20 Jul 10
right right, because women never cheat...or date a guy just to boost their ego...or marry a man with one foot in the grave for his money.... in case this has gone over your head I'm being sarcastic. I am male and 98% of my girlfriends cheated on me. it's not that men are more prone to cheat, it is that more men get CAUGHT cheating than cheating women. also, read some letter books (adult ones).. most of them are women writing anonymous letters about their cheating.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Hmm this is very interesting what you are telling me 98% eh well now I need to further investigate this and go to the public and get both sides opinions women and men. To see which one has more. Oh and really sorry that you got cheated on so much.
• United States
21 Jul 10
Cheating definitely hurts so many involved, I would say and agree that men are more likely but you know what there are just as many women likelier to do so also. I think women have more feelings so they get caught quicker, and well man or women, it is just plain wrong. I have been cheated on and it is not fun
@damned_dle (3942)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
well that is true. maybe because the society expects the girls to behave properly, while boys, well, there is a saying boys will be boys. but ofcourse that is just not right for the part of the girls.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
20 Jul 10
True boys will be boys and yes it is never right for the girl why must we be treated in such a way.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Hmmm... There are men who at first resist such temptation and they are successful in doing it. There are some who instead of controlling their selves, indulge into what they so called "pleasure" and they no longer think that cheating is bad because of such thing... And now, they make their selves believe that it makes them feel that they are really MEN...