Are The Poor People Really Dishonest ? A Question...

@krajibg (11923)
Guwahati, India
July 20, 2010 9:34pm CST
Our English grammar books never read people’s sentiment I guess. When I was at school while teaching us how to form complex sentences in English our teachers would often resort to expressions like “Though she is poor she is honest”, “Though he is poor he is hardworking” etc. Now my question is, are not the grammar books biased? Or are not they lackadaisically written without considering the sentiment and emotion of the poor? Finally is not it an insult to the poor that they have been referred basically as dishonest herd? Does not it thus prove their being dishonest when said or written “Though he is poor he is honest?” Does not it indirectly though hit them hard? I have met people who are really honest. What I feel, on the contrary is, the rich lots are more dishonest than the poor if this comes to stay. Are the poor really dishonest? Just a question? I have doubts hovering over my head. Please share your view. Rajib. NB: I had to repost the same topic for there was a spelling error in the title?
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 10
Hello krajibg,.......Please don't get confused, what you think as insult is actually a compliment.....It is said like this so that those who have used dishonest ways to earn money and get rich can feel guilty and ashamed. Unfortunately, honest people are mostly poor, but only where money is concerned, otherwise, they are rich in character, culture, and self-respect which is a great achievement in life. Only honest man, no matter poor or rich, has clear conscious and can sleep peacefully like a baby in the night.When dishonest person reads sentences like you have mentioned above, they may not show, but I am sure they feel ashamed of themselves while honest (though poor) , walks proudly with grace in the society and is not burden on this earth
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 10
You know Krajibg, in recent few years, thinking of people has changed a lot, more and more people are becoming open minded. Now people have started to realized that every person is a human being first and his being rich or poor, honest or dishonest is his or her personal matter and people try not to interfere into personal matters of people unless it become a crime and is really harmful for third person. Young educated people have different views now a days and I like it. But I also know that it will still take long time for the whole world to think in same way.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Jul 10
apsara again, yes people have started coming out of the tiny holes where their thoughts and action would remain hibernated. Change is necessary too. not that I am poor and I am advocating for the cause of the poor. What I was trying to was to focus on the demeaning mentality that some people still hold. Those grammars were written long back I guess. And the now generation hardly short out who is who? And yes it would take a long time to change the entire perspective on such volatile issue. thanks.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Jul 10
hi apsara, i do not think I had got confused. I agree with you and to your words here. But when a contradiction is made one must emerge positive. Say the sentence read 'Although she is poor she is honest'. Do not you think here tagging her as poor and honesty an occasional thing in her class,we have added a plus to the rich? By default they are good souls and the poor are bad and only sometime some body could be honest. Look at the application. How shrewdly it is accomplished. The sentence quoted out rights the poor being honest. On the contrary the rich are honest. Rest of your stuff are nice indeed.
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@mentalward (14691)
• United States
21 Jul 10
I've been poor most of my life BECAUSE I'm honest! I used to own a house in a lower-income neighborhood. There were many there who were not honest, I'm sorry to say. I believe they were poor more because they were not intelligent more than their being honest or dishonest, though. There were a lot of petty thieves who were not even good at it and spent a lot of time in jail. Because of that, they couldn't get a decent job. Or, they just didn't want to go back to school in order to have a better job. I've also known a lot of poor people who were, and still are, very honest. To be perfectly honest with you (pun intended), I have never given any thought about that statement you wrote, even though I have heard it before.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
hi ward, Well put pun. lol Yeah I do not say they are not dishonest. They are, because they are needy and are forced to stealing or rolling down to dishonesty for they were forced by the rich in the society that went on squeezing them out until they stood all bonny. Or take it on the government. If it had a plan for the poor class thee would not be dishonesty among them. And what about the rich? Are they honest as suggested in the sentence quoted? Their dishonesty rather resulted in the dishonesty in the poor. Thank you.
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
21 Jul 10
I think it depends on how the sentence is interpreted. It also depends on who started using the sentence. I came from a poor family. And yes, I met those sentences during my school days. It never crossed my mind that the sentence was, and still is, an insult to the poor. Honesty does not belong to a definite category of people. The sentence may be in reality trying to emphasise that the person remains honest in day to day dealings even when surrounded by poverty. It does not mean that most poor people are dishonest. The same thing could be said of being a poor and hardworking person. In a sense it shows that the person does not blame Fate, or God, or anything else. Rather it points out to the fact that the person believes in working hard as a step out of poverty for his family.
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
22 Jul 10
Only one interpretation/ O gdear, in that case I think I will rest my case, since I do n ot think that there is anything else to discuss.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
You got me wrong my friend. if interpreted academically, what I wanted to say. Since this was related to teaching grammar I did not see any other interpretation involved here. Metaphorically or semantically you can do so in many ways. I think I could clear your doubt./
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Jul 10
Hi rosdimy, There is only one interpretation about the sentence which says in a round about way that poor are dishonest. Undoubtedly this academic thing but we learn to grow and behave as our education teaches us. You would agree with me perhaps that an educated mind is somewhat different from an uneducated ones. My point is if the grammarian really had to pick up an example to show adverb of contradiction he/she could go for something else like 'though she is knowledgeable she lacks in confidence'. Why hit at the poor? Yes my friend honesty is not any one's property. But here in the sentence it is applied in such a manner as if all honesty is owned by rich people and only few poor could be honest but do not forget about their being poor. lol Thank you.
• Australia
21 Jul 10
I don't think so because as they have nothing to loose why would they need to be dishonest but there is always the other side. By this I mean dishonesty does not restrict itself to any particular person regardless of how much or how little money they have. I think greed, envy and guilt would contribute more to dishonesty than whether or not a person has money.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi laurelle, Well, very nice analogy indeed. Money is not a measuring tool to label if one is honest and the other is dishonest. But when you are taught such discriminating thing in school in the process of learning you would be guided indirectly though to form an impression tat the poor are actually dishonest people and only few of them are honest and you know exception doe not make it a rule. Thank you very much.
@sufyan6 (65)
• Pakistan
21 Jul 10
in my life i have seen that poor peoples are honest than the rich peoples some of the peoples who are poor some time they become dishonest for the money or for other thing because they have to feed their children s other wise poor peoples are honest they are very simple peoples and they have no a big business like rich peoples and they do not speak lie like the rich peoples but i think poor peoples are honest than the rich peoples.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Jul 10
Aaleexix, My friend the purpose was to show how contradiction is a complex sentence are shown. The sentence you wrote " Though she is rich she is honest" - here both the parts are positive. Since being rich is regarded as positive happenings, being poor is a negative thing for none of us would love to be a pauper. would we? Mere understanding the inner meaning would not help, you need to come up to the ground reality for all literature and books reflect the tendency prevailing in a given society. thanks for the add.
@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
21 Jul 10
" Though she is rich she is honest" " Though she is rich she is dishonest" " Though she is poor she is honest" " Though she is poor she is dishonest" Only the last sentence can erase the blame from the head of poor. Ironically out of these three only last one is in favor of the poor!
@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
21 Jul 10
The inert meaning of the sentence is that poor has the chance to be dishonest. It is contradiction that she would have dishonest but surprisingly she is honest. I just analyze the inert meaning of the sentence. Though the sentence is used in grammar but we can't ignore the feelings of the sentence. It reflect the views of the people and through the education system the concept is conveyed that poor are dishonest. So it is a matter of reasoner whether poor are really dishonest. As some people says here that rich are more dishonest than poor. If so why the sentence was not constructed as "Though she is rich she is honest" It's a great question who are more dishonest. Rich or poor. Circumstances says that poor has the major chance to be dishonest. Circumstances compel them to be dishonest. But how less in the race to be dishonest. Greed, extreme desire, to be more rich .... rich are also not in the back step in the race. So ..... like the question of egg and hen..... what comes first????
• India
21 Jul 10
Hi Rajib, In my view, everywhere honest and dishonest people. Its not based on their wealth always. But sometimes do. If person is poor they need to survive in the world. For that, they are ready to take any step. Some choosing cheating, stealing, like that. I can also say someone will get more jealous on the wealth people. And they'll behave dishonest to the known wealthy person. So its based on their character mostly.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi ramya, yes more or less we all are honest and dishonest at times. and this is really disparaging to tag the poor ones as dishonest lots. thank you for sharing and welcome to mylot family.
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
They can be and they can't. Even the rich people can be honest or not. People are people and people are different. It depends also on the situation why you are being dishonest. Some because they want to take advantage, some because they want to save someone, or because they want to live a happy life. That is depends on you, on how you will lie about a certain situation as we lie because some situation leads us to it.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi grecy, you are right. in the simpler version both the rich and the poor are honest and dishonest. What makes difference is the situations. Still I feel the text books should be carefully written so tat none is hurt. Thank you.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
22 Jul 10
Hi Krajibg, I don't think that dishonesty has a lot to do with being poor or rich etc. I have known both rich and poor people that are dishonest. I have heard that before but I just don't buy into it. My boss once told me that she went to a seminar to spot and avoid employee theft and was told to pay extra attention to the employees that were poor because they would be most apt to steal. It was a convenience store...how many rich convenience store workers are there? So logically does that mean that all of her employees were dishonest? I know plenty of people on both ends of the pay scale that hare theives or liars.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
hii sid, I agree. Both on different conditions are cheats and thus dishonesty follow their foot steps. But how fair is it to pin point in a book where school kids learn thing about life and other things as well? Your example of the boss is apt and it shows who is swimming at what depth of the pond. thank you.
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
22 Jul 10
i could see why that would be insulting. a less offensive sentence when it came to teaching english should had been used. i don't understand why the person who came up with the sentence to teach english used it. there could of been a better example. lastly i'll say liers come in all areas of life.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi elmiko, yes, you got it I guess. The writer of the grammar books failed to realize that such examples could be disparaging. There are so many contradictory sentences and why could not he/she pick up one or two out of there? thank you for sharing.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
It's a stereotype like any other stereotype. There are many poor people in the world who would never think of stealing or lying, and a good deal of rich people who would. It's just the the dishonest rich do a better job of stealing than the dishonest poor do...
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Jul 10
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi dawn, very apt interpretation. Loved it. Yes those are the books which were written by our colonial cousins and are still on the selves without any modification in the contents. And you would not find such an example in any recent grammar books or the ones that are revised every year or every alternate year. These are bilingual text. thanks for sharing. And what happened to my ministry? lol
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
24 Jul 10
Being poor and without can make people do things that are dishonest..but not all of them. I think it would be an unfair assessment that people that are less advantaged are dishonest. There have been many times in my life that I have been disadvantaged but have been true. I think that such statements could be taken in both ways.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
24 Jul 10
Hi Jen, What we see in real life of today. People hardly judge you on your being rich or advantaged or poor. The text books that are still in circulation had been written long back and were so without taking the sentiment thing into account. You are correct that being poor does not necessarily mean one is dishonest and rich is honest.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
22 Jul 10
I never really read anything that ever condemned or put down "poor" people like that, but I would definitely say that those texts are biased and trying to imply something that would be considered "stereotyping" in most people's eyes. i don't think that's right at all. Rich people can be just as conniving and dishonest (etc) as poor people. Greed and stupidity are not something that stick to all people of a certain class. Ugh. People!
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi maezee, You would not if you are following a grammar written by an English or native speakers of the language. Yes it is all stereotype. What was written 60 years ago is being reprinted and are still in circulation without caring that some elements in the book could hurt the feelings of the poor. These grammar books are basically bilingual. And hopelessly they thought to elaborate a contradiction in a complex sentence such sentence would be much better. thank you for dropping.
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
23 Jul 10
I think it's very precious to be honest both for the rich and the poor.for the poor it's more precious to be honest because of their living standard.for the rich we wish they should honest.there are no reason for them to be dishonest.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
24 Jul 10
Hi zhouxi, So you would say that both poor and the rich are honest and dishonest in different situations. Thank you .
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
25 Jul 10
yeah!
• India
21 Jul 10
to say it more simply, how you categorize peoples..based on money.. if a person has more money he is the rich person and obviously he has more problems thinking about the money. Poor people has no such worry, they earn money just to live the life. Less Money, Less tension, More Honesty, More Happiness... I would like to say to folk in myLot here, please earn money to live the life and not to live for earning money... Sorry if i have any grammatical mistake :)
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Jul 10
Hi thennarasugr, you seem right. The poor have better sleep at night since they have no heat burn over anything like the people. They are in peace for they do not have to rat race for more money to be able to stick around the competition. On such event they are more prone to dishonesty for they wish to make it to by hook or crook. I do not say either that poor are not dishonest at all. The tendency to be dishonest stems at their poverty. But if they can manage two square meals and a shelter to settle I do not think they would play dishonest. Thank you. No, I did not find any spelling error.
• India
21 Jul 10
Thanks Krajibr.. i really like this stuff.. keep discussing such interesting thing.. :)
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Jul 10
You are welcomed.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Jul 10
Hi rajib, No, I feel certain that the poor are no more dishonest than the rich. As you say it may be that overall the rich are more dishonest but I don't think being rich or poor is a good measuring stick for honesty. I find it interesting that I have often read such expressions as you mention, yet never thought of it as you did.Blessings.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
There are some obnoxious elements that think the poor are by nature dishonest. If they are dishonest, one need to look for the back ground too. And applying that poor are such a lot you are trying to bestow all positivity on the rich. That is unfair. yes I agree with you the notion of honesty or dishonesty mostly lie on action rather than one's being - rich or poor. Thank you Pose.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
21 Jul 10
Just because someone is poor does not mean they are dishonest. A rich person can also be dishonest. We judge people from appearances when we shouldn't. When we dig deeper into someone's character and personality, their true self is revealed to us. Anyone can be honest or dishonest. Money has no value or power over dishonesty.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi sender, you have put the right words. any one can be both honest and dishonest and monetary status has nothing to add anything to it. Thank you.
@hanuma34 (819)
• India
21 Jul 10
hi rajib. Your first quote does not intend to hurt the poor. Poor are generally needy and so more susceptible to take recourse to dishonesty. Second quote too is only a healthy comment but inane. There is no sentiment involved,and the word 'poor' is the right choice for putting the emphasis on the situation. Dishonesty stems from dire need of something which one feels is being deprived of. You may now find your answer.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi hanuma, your words seem quite convincing. But I would not agree with you. If you think dishonesty stems primarily from dire necessity why are rich hundred times more dishonest than the poor? How come an MP or a minister in India becomes millionaire within five years and still go on multiplying the sum? Is it his honesty or would you call it dishonesty. Well, if the poor are dishonest it is because the government has not been honest in its policy. you know those who are on the hot seats are not paupers. I hope you got my point.
• India
22 Jul 10
Dishonesty and honesty is not specific to any particular strata of the society. People generally tend to believe that if a person were poor, his state of poverty would lead him to temptation; and he would be dishonest. Likewise, the rich since there is nothing lacking for him, he would be naturally honest; but the greed for more wealth can lead him to temptation and he would be dishonest. I agree with you that the educationists while writing textbook ought to be careful not to write such sentences that would influence the mind of little ones. It would sow the seed of an idea in child's mind that if someone were poor, he would be dishonest; and if someone were rich, he would ipso facto be honest.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
I agree with you that the educationists while writing textbook ought to be careful not to write such sentences that would influence the mind of little ones. It would sow the seed of an idea in child's mind that if someone were poor, he would be dishonest; and if someone were rich, he would ipso facto be honest. This is what i am more concerned about achilles. Time has changed and we hardly discriminate as to who is rich and who is poor. But if one has to learn such thing in the premature stage the impact would be too large and too much negative. thank you friend.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
I disagree. Generally, person tends to be dishonest when he is in dire need for something. But the poor are not dishonest.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Jul 10
Thats what I think too.
• India
21 Jul 10
Hi, Absolutely it is not correct.I have seen more who are being very honest even though there are very poor.Honest is coming from character that people not from money. So we can not compare money with character. We can see some people who are rich, but still they are lagging in character. It depends on people.:) Cheers, Sakthi
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Jul 10
Hi sakthi, Yes, I agree wit you honesty lie more in te mind and action than in riches but our social norms are such only those who are rich are honest and only they can do justice. The poor are dishonest. Just reflect, if they are dishonest who and what made them so? Thank you for the response.