me and ?

July 22, 2010 7:31am CST
Several day ago, my parents said I need a boy friend and then get marriage ,and they also told me not keep a high standard or i will grow old and even harder to have a guy to marry me~~Gosh~~Yes, I m single now and i don't have large life circle ,it seems a little harder to know more men. For my part ,i really need a bf to care about me. maybe it still not the right time for me to meet my mr right~~What i have to do is just waitiing?
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@pwnson (150)
• India
23 Jul 10
Yes i think you should wait to meet your ' Mr. right'.We all have one so hold on to your thoughts.
23 Jul 10
ok~ths ~ and I will take your advice~~nice day~
@kshp_dpk (213)
• India
27 Jul 10
Yes, you should wait for your dearest one to come and hold your heart.
• China
27 Jul 10
I don't think it good for you to just wait. It's better that you wait on the move,that means you are waiting but at the same time you are really move on to find someone to be you bf. Waiting there means you cannot descide when you bf will turn out and there are so many unknow points.
@Lewejsam (63)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
Hi! I remember my mother telling me the same thing not so long ago. When she said that, it seemed that she was telling me to go out on a man-hunt. "Go get a bf and get married." LOL. I know she just wants me to settle down and have a man who will take care of me. However, I've already turned over this aspect of my life to God. I'd rather not go searching and end up with the wrong man. I think it would be best to wait and let the Lord set the course of my love story. =)
@rtsh_gup (185)
• India
24 Jul 10
Hi i suggest you to wait for your Mr right till he come and hold your heart.
@ashton77 (292)
• India
26 Jul 10
Don't drag yourself to know a person. If it has to happen it will happen naturally. Right now I think you are not thinking about making boyfriends or maybe it's not your priority. I am sure that in coming days you will definitely get to know people, but that will happen naturally. The key is to wait and keep on waiting till you think that he is the one.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
22 Jul 10
Oh definitely wait until you know for sure..The biggest mistake people make is settling for whatever comes by, trust me you DON"T want to do that..What you do need though is friends or other family members who support your decision. Without support soon you will feel you have to follow what your parents say.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
23 Jul 10
Hi dear, first of all try to not be worried about it. I'm engaged and I met him in a time that I REALLY didn't think I was going to find someone. It was the first three years alone in my life before he come along and maybe because it was the right time, our meeting was like uncontable coincidences, one after another. So if you ask me I believe in destiny, but I always did but this was the biggest one. I would say to you to go out when you can but really enjoy your self, don't make the going outs to be a seeking or something. I think it's so much pressure when parents just keep saying this, like it would change something. Believe that you will find, I don't know if you watched The Secret but I can tell it does work. Imagine the guy that you want and have fun, he will come one way or another. There is no right age to get married, to find the right person and it's not even right to get married when one doesn't want to.