What can you say about "Love is Blind"

July 22, 2010 8:17am CST
Well, I have a friend here who is really in love with my guy friend who is really a playboy... for several times I warned here about this guy but still she keeps on ignoring what I told her... I know this coz I saw my guy friend to be with serveral girls every month... I'm really concerned with my girl friend coz I know she deserved to have a right for her... but still she is hard headed... she continue's on loving my guy friend.... until such day they have some commitment aside from what she heard about him.... In this way I can really tell that "Love is really blind"... Can you share your thoughts about it...
17 responses
@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
22 Jul 10
I will not say that love is blind but i would definately like to mention that people in love have blind faith in their partner. And well as for you.... be rest assured that your frined would not listen to you till she is hurt!! probably after she is hurt will she realize how you were trying to save her form all the trouble.
22 Jul 10
That's why I've been warning her coz I really don't want her to be hurt with my playboy friend... I really want her to have the best/right guy for her that would make her really happy... I really Love my Girl Friend...
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
Love is not blind, but rather seeing what others can not see, a feeling that is so special that others seem to look the other way. Although many times you have warned your friend about this guy and yet she seems to not take your concern, i think that you should as a friend to try to understand her feelings towards this guy. Being in love is a state of mind wherein we are not able to realize the negative things, but rather the unexplainable emotion and happiness that we experience thus making the notion that one seems to be blind when in love. Heart over mind rather than mind over heart, an old myth reality for those who really are truly in love...
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
22 Jul 10
I completely agree with you that love is not blind but sees what other people cannot see what other people cannot see. If you were in love would you be able to listen to other people when they trying to get you to see negative things? Sometimes with love we see all the good in a person and our emotions and what not outweighs the negative. Maybe she is listening to you about him, but at the same time thinks his good outweighs that.
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
for me, when we say "love is blind", it is when you are ready to accept the person wholly. with all his exceptions, his flaws and his weakness. and that your love will never fade. but not to the extent of covering your eyes for what is really happening. it is like being a martyr. you'll only get yourself hurt when you insist a relationship with a person who can never give his loyalty to you. but we are not sure what happens next, he could change also if he really loves your girl friend he'll change for her. anyway, just give her your advice if she doesn't listen to you it's really up to her then. but she can't blame you for telling her the truth. anyway happy mylotting!
@ehsanji (503)
• Pakistan
25 Jul 10
Love is really blind! Okay I think your friend is going to learn only by going through some bad experiences. Her eyes will be opened then, God Forbid. I mean I don't want her to go through that experience, but at the moment she seems to be very much into it, and she will understand only when she gets ditched. Let's wish her all the best. Maybe something in her personality will change that guy's mindset. And he will turn into a nice loyal husband for her.
• Portugal
24 Jul 10
im sorry for your friend :( she really loves him and doesnt care for what you say. bcs for her maybe he seems sweet and not a playboy. anyway why dont you talk with your friend that one she likes the playboy i mean and tell him to talk with your friend girl and be friends with her. maybe he might like her who knows? all playboys change one day for a girl. maybe this happens. they can be friends and then they see what happens^^ but see if he doesnt hurt your friend if he in future date her check if he doesnt be with other girls.
• Thailand
3 Aug 10
your position is almost like me.my sistes was love the one who i hate and unrespect but when i warn her her behaved like your g friend!! i dont understand why she love him? he is rude boy and nothing of he can make a girl happy!!so disunderstand
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
Love is never blind. Love should be the key for a better relationship. No one is supposed to get hurt. When one is in love, that person turns for the better and not for the worse. Being truly in love is not limited to one soul, it extends beyond the relationship of two people. They become a productive members of the community. They become more understanding of not only of their own feelings but also with the feelings of others. They are level headed and logical. Maybe your friend is just infatuated, which is also confused with love, or just in love with the feeling of being in love. Observe the way your friend talk. Ask something about their relationship. If there's more "I" or "ME" in the answers then it is most likely that your friend is infatuated. Love is more of "WE" and "US" because they see themselves unconsciously as one soul.
@Archie0 (5636)
22 Jul 10
Hello joan, well i have always been talking, sharing and thinking on this topic about love is blind. I really believe love is truly blind, because me too have seen so many cases where people got weird couples, they got nothing to love when their partners are so much ordering nature, dominating, insulting. But to my surprise they still love them like mad, plus either of them is damn beautiful but the other one if i seen are just fat, black, and what not.I truly believe love is definetly blind
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
22 Jul 10
Love is blind.. Yes, sometimes it does blind. But I think love is not totally blind. There must be something about him that your friend sees. A side that you don't know and your friend knows. Love is not blind because you choose that people to fall in love with. ^^ Right?
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
I'm sorry but I don't believe in such crap thought. She isn't blind with the negative issues about the guy she's loving. She is just ready and hopeful. When love comes it makes you braver to face the expected circumstances. I'm happy to know that you let her (your friend) see about your guy friends' character. Happy mylotting!
@melmabb (579)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
To me Love is not only Blind, Love is blind,deaf and mute....When one is In love you can these characteristics in that person...just as your friend...she will soon realized when she fails that relationship,if she succeed then that's good...Thanks!
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 10
love is not blind but the person is really blind dont know who and what kind of it person is that , if the cupid say falling in love they will be do it and get some lover or the girl and the man is really feels right for each other not because masher or playboy like you said and what you do if you and you boyfriend not get to feels right any more ??????
23 Jul 10
well u can try and explain 2 her and if she dont listen to you all you can do is wait give her time untill she finds out herself and then she will realise that u was thinking abt her in a good way and will appreciate you love is blind sometimes and u dont realise .....
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
As of now, I think, all you have to do is keep on telling her no matter what happen because she's your friend. And when she fall, if ever, after their relationship, all you have to do is stay with her because that's the when she needed you most. But I hope the guy will soon realize what is he doing, and realize that your friend is the right girl that is looking for and that he stops being a playboy.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
22 Jul 10
Hi, I agreed with you "Love is blind" and it makes me recall of Celine Dion's song.I love this song alot. Love can makes someone forget about the surroundings and the persons at her side and she will be willing to do everything for her love. For me, I will see whether is it worthy to sacrifice for that guy. Is he the Mr.Right that I am looking for so far? Never make yourself dragged into a playboy, it is a big trap and your friend will regret in future. Try to show prove to your friend about this guy,at least let her have the clear picture of this guy's true colour. If your friend still determine to be with this guy,then nothing can help her. I guess only times will tell her the truth about this guy. Takecare @!!
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
22 Jul 10
Love is blind, because when you love, you don`t see clearly the things around you, the feelings are making you a dreamer, and a very sensitive person, you are always starry-eyed, and you can see some defects, that a person may have, you fall in love without knowing, when you expect the least.
• Saudi Arabia
22 Jul 10
love is a continuous act of forgiveness. in this way, i agree with what you said that love is blind. such thing as forgiveness when you're in-love makes everything okay. even though how much pain that someone is giving to you, yet for the name of love, you still accept him for what he is and for what he is doing to you. there is no such thing as giving up when you're loving someone. not unless, you have everything drained and nothing left even for yourself. love is blind in so many ways. you can't blame your friend because she's just in the mystery of loving. but this does not apply to everyone because each person has its own way of understanding what truly love really is.