Oooopppsss...you're getting beyond the limit
By elleb0418
@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
July 22, 2010 8:54am CST
How often do you accept some comments from some friends or even people who does not know more about you? Are you getting hurt sometimes?
If we heard some comments sometimes we can take it,but sometimes we can't.We been hurt when we heard it specially when it comes to our personality.This happened when the comments is already beyond the limit and it already invading your privacy. They said accepting it in a positive way makes you more a better person but what if those comments are not good enough to handle anymore,can you still accept it in a positive way?
There's is one saying,"Dog doesn't barks if she/he know you".
There's is one saying,"Dog doesn't barks if she/he know you".3 responses
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
Hi elle,
life is so unpredictable and you do not know when and what circumstances send you crazy only that somebody hurt you be it in the form of comment or response. It's been more than a year I am here on mylot and only on few occasion I did confront such thing. A harsh and uncalled for comment and you live a martyr the rest of the day.
this has come from both friend and non friends. This is more hurting when things like this drop from a seemingly known face. If it is otherwise I let it go and try to forget as if nothing happened and I move on. Life is not static and you can not sit on your grumpy mood all the while.
Thanks.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
Yes,you are right but sometimes it is so disgusting.As a person I can take some comments If I know that it was true,but if it's beyond the limit anymore,I tried to confront that person but in a nice way also.And after that I will be okay.I can easily let go things,coz I know it's not healthy when you are keeping some hatred in your heart.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jul 10
No elle, nicety does not pay dividend here. If you are prepared for a confrontation then go ahead and settle it in your favour or if you see the other party resorting to foul words just intimate the admin. You can not go the line he/she goes anyway.
@annavi23 (6633)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
yeah, i have experienced that.and true! we all are different people from different worlds so,don't let yourself treat other people which makes them feel uncomfortable.
unfortunately,we didn't know who will do this to us,but we have to let ourselves cool down for a bit,then try to talk to the person if possible in private so they'll know how to respond the right way!
it's not right to treat people rudely.just let yourself be in their place before acting rude to them.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
There are people who cannot control themselves,they always treat other people rudely.They are not thinking twice before doing it.I have been into that also.
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Hi elle!!!
I know what you mean. If you don't want to get negative super negative feedback its better not to start one at all. I am hurt at times with the replies and comments from fiends but I never take it seriously maybe because we all have different views and opinions when it comes to personal and private life.
