Money and Love

love  - love for my first discussion
Vietnam
July 22, 2010 10:53pm CST
I have a great sweetheart now. He's very excellent. He's good in taking money. But he's poor now. His family is very poor too. So, he must earn for his family. I'm very sad about that! He can earn much money. Then he send to his family. I don't know when he can care his private family. Sometimes I feel bored. I want to leave him. But I also love him very much. I can't! How must I do?
15 responses
@Lunaxh (45)
• China
23 Jul 10
I think you should tell him that rather than just giving money to his family, he should help them making money by themselves. Independence is the first element of self-survival.
@Lunaxh (45)
• China
23 Jul 10
As the proverb saying, give a man a fish, you have fed him for today; teach a man to fish, and you have fed him for lifetime.
• Vietnam
23 Jul 10
I tell him that. But he says that his parents were very hard before, so he want his parents have a comfortable now! I don't know what I can say!
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
23 Jul 10
If i really loved him I won't leave him. I will try to consoled him even if he gets desperate. Moreover I will try to help their family in whatever I could do.
• Vietnam
24 Jul 10
I also think the same you. But I scare that if i am easy with him, he will only care his family and he will neglect to care private family. I'm very afraid about that. The life is very difficult. If you must feed 03 family, no one will be going to be best :(
@Lunar01 (151)
• United States
23 Jul 10
Tell him that he needs to think about you and him before he needs to worry about his other family. Even though like you say, if his family is poor then of course he would need to help them. He just doesn't have to do it too much. Just tell him about it but if you love him then you don't need to live him. Ask him whether he values the family he has with you now or his other family.
• Vietnam
23 Jul 10
Hix, he love me but he also love his family. I told him. But he can't. I not only care your parents but also he car his sister and her husband. I'm very sad. I scare when I must want him choice me or his family :(
@shockrayz (199)
23 Jul 10
Help him in earning money so that you could ease his burden,.
• Vietnam
23 Jul 10
Sure. But i'm afraid that he'll care his family more. and he'll make me alone!
@abhi000 (235)
• India
23 Jul 10
I think you should not leave him and go on with the relationship as love is all about being with the person in his or her bad days.
• Vietnam
23 Jul 10
Thank you for your advising.
• India
13 Aug 10
I feel he need your support. What is the meaning of loving him, if you are not able to help him. When he is in trouble. Lets him try to find a good job. SO that he can come out of this bad situation. But if you just ignore him, you are going to hurt him lot. Please never let him feel this. If you do this, then he will be not able to help himself, for get about him family.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Aug 10
Support him, a true love is which doesnot expect anything in turn.
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
23 Jul 10
I'd be very careful of that kind of lover unless you have a lot of extra money. There are too many fakes out there that will USE you and your money and you won't get anything in return.
@george000 (166)
• India
26 Jul 10
I can't leave him because he love and care me without reason.wealth is nothing if we were in sound health. We can earn at any time and help to others.Like a saying we have if there is a will, there is a way.We can do what ever we want if we have the interest.
@pwnson (150)
• India
28 Jul 10
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@bkrm_gupt (219)
• India
23 Jul 10
We should help each other in earning money so that we can solve our burden and live our life happily.
• India
26 Jul 10
As saying goes,Time and tide wait for none I can't give up my love one if he is poor or rich.Is our faith, some time we be poor and some time we are rich but for me love cannot differ to any one.For me if there is true love I will not see for wealth.
• India
26 Jul 10
Okey it is not a big problem dear.Love is everything don't worry if you have true and strong love between you any kind of problem will be solved by discussion. Thinking of leaving him is great mistake you are doing and it is sin and hope you may not get the same love again in future. So please be his right hand and help him to solve the every problem. As somebody had said that one finger cannnot pick the stone we should use our both finger to pick the same.So to live a happy and peaceful life don't go for money.
• India
27 Jul 10
If you really loved him, I should tell you that you should help him in each and every difficulties.If you think you want to leave him then you haven't love him.Never ever think to live some one who is in problem try to help him even he is rich or poor.Both of you can work together to find right solution to solve your problems.IF my lover is in big trouble I can find best solution to find him a good job where he can earn more money and he can help his family and keep me happy forever.
@kshp_dpk (213)
• India
23 Jul 10
I think you should work together with him,in this way you two can help each other.