how do you define the word " MISTRESS" or ' THE OTHER WOMAN?

It takes two to tanggo. Let's not entirely blame the woman alone for getting involved or falling in love with a married man. The man might have initiated it - courted the woman, showed attention, thoughtfulness, love and care for the woman. Those usually are most of women's weaknesses. Once a man shows us this kind of attention, we always certainly fall for his trap - unless we are strong enough to resist it. When love sets in, we tend to set aside all our principles. We shut ourselves from any negative realities. The heart overrules the mind. The woman knows it's wrong, but love for her is stronger than anything - more than what other people will think about her. So let's no be judgmental. She is a sinner, we all know that. But if you think you are a person of no sin, then go ahead and be the first one to cast the stone on her.

Yes I think its not fair when it comes to having a relationship to married people. When a guy is having an affair, its not that a big issue. Others will say, its the man's nature, not to be contented in one. But when a woman is having a relationship with a married person especially when she's married to other too, its really a very big issue and sound so shameful. Others will say "so shameful, she's a woman and she's having an affair".

its an excuse to say that we're only humans that's why we commit mistakes. We alrady know what these things are whether they are good or bad. If we know that something is not right then we should be smart enough to do it. I think of mistresses or other woman as insecure, selfish, and a disgusting type.

Whatever term we call it, its one of the very worst sin the a woman can do, because not only she ruins her life, her reputation, her respect to herself she also hurts the wife, the son, the whole family of the man & mostly he disregard the law that God gave us of "thou shall not commit adultery"...

yes i agree with you. women are more judged than men. is like if a man cheat people see like a normal thing but women some people get more furious with it. i think both are wrong bcs women and men are the same and both shouldnt do that. anyway you are right we all make mistakes but i think that cheat is one that can be avoided. if we feel we love or want be with someone else we must tell to the person with whom we are^^ thats the right thing to do even men or women.

Having a Mistress or being the other woman are situations that result from the choices we make. There are many reasons why one does it. what ever the reason, it is not our place to pass judgement. At least I don't. Will I knowingly share my woman with another man? No. Will I judge a woman that shares a man with another woman? Not my place. Should society judge? Not their business. Should one sit in judgment of one's self? Up to the individual.

Simply put, a mistress or other woman is one half of the couple who breaks the covenant before God to remain true to their spouse. Thank You, Nikki D. Felder