Closed Heart..
By mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
Philippines
July 24, 2010 6:49am CST
Hi mylotters!! Here I am again... ^__^
I miss this site!
Now that I have a work now and busy schedules..I don't have time now for having a relationship with..
I just thought that, I don't have any chance for that thing, so I must focus myself to any other things which are more important than having a commitment...
and beside...there were no one who wants to be with me or just make me feel special..
I feel so sad because of that..but now..I think..I must close my heart and not think of anything else but my work and my family..
I don't know how long I will be like this, but for now...I think, this will be the smartest things that I can do... *sigh!
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13 responses
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
I see nothing wrong with being single for a while. You're still young, enjoy the freedom of a life without commitments. Put your family and career first so that when you hop on back to the dating game, you'd be totally ready for it. Enjoy life, dear. :)
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jul 10
Hi akia dranem: I agree with you, there's nothing wrong on being single. Being single is not a negative situation. When you live your life you find the answers to these questions so we don't have to worry too much about these things. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
24 Jul 10
aww mhek sorry for it :( but dont say you will close your heart maybe you meet a special guy in work or in your way to work ahah we never know how we will meet our love right? bcs your bad relationships dont think noone cares or noone will care to be with you. you are a beautiful girl and sweet also so for sure a guy will love you^^ we all have someone special just we dont know when that person will appear but sure we cant close our heart^^ we must think i will find a guy that will love me and make me feel the most special girl in the world^^
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jul 10
Hi sweet love forever: I beleive we all have one true love too. So, I think we shouldn't close the door for love but at the same time we shouldn't force situations either. Time always help. It's just about time that our friend will find the person that is just for her. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
There's nothing wrong with being single.. but you do feel lonely at times. But I don't think you should close your heart because of how busy you are and that no one is making you feel special as of the moment. Everything will fall into place, in the right time. Since someone hasn't made you feel special or anything, its a good thing that you focus on your responsibilities such as work, career and family. But never close your heart, keep a close eye on it. Who knows? He may be just around you but your just too blind to notice. 
Best of luck to you,
Best of luck to you,1 person likes this
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jul 10
Hi meeming New: I can be sure, after watching this situation so many times with my friends that after breaking up with theyr bf/gf has promised to close their hearts for a while, that when love knocks your door again, you can not resist to its call. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
24 Jul 10
I have a closed heart,also! I also have found no one to love me! I know if I would look again I would not be able to trust a aman again! I also know I am hard person to be around because of my set ways! I never will feel the touch of a a man again and I accept that. It stinks but I rather be alone then then unhappy! My 2 jobs,working on my pc and the other things in my life are more important.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jul 10
Hi blue 65 packer: This sounds sad but trust me, I feel the same way. In my case, I think I'm so shy and maybe so different that it's hard to open my heart to someone else. At the beginning I wait for love but finally I have decided that I will just let things go. Maybe that means that I have closed my heart and I try to concentrate myself on my own job and other things thatare important for me too. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jul 10
Hi andy: I agree with you. This works almost on everything. When you are obsessed on a single thing, you usually don't get it but if you relax and live your life you find the answers. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
24 Jul 10
Are you a Libran. Well Librans are closed hearted, they have a lot to say but never open up their feelings. They usually hide their pain and show the world that they have all the happiness in the world. The concentrate on work and activities but when they are free they isolate themselves and cry their heart out.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jul 10
Hi edward joy: I'm not sure about this horocope thing and if it's real or not. I'm quite skeptical specially because I'm not a Libran butthis description fits me just fine to me. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
@simonelee (2715)
• China
29 Jul 10
If that's the case the right one for has not yet arrive. Don't force your self, enjoy your time as a single and to be with your family and friends. And when the time you're ready to love again you'll meet the person will wake your sleeping heart. I was also in your shoe before the difference is that there are still people courting me but i have no interest in commitment. nOw, after years of resting i'm happily engaged.
I was also in your shoe before the difference is that there are still people courting me but i have no interest in commitment. nOw, after years of resting i'm happily engaged.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
24 Jul 10
I think that's a smart move. I believe relationships need not be forced. It is going to happen when it is supposed to happen. It will come when you least expect it. By focusing on your work, you've just shifted your priorities, which mean that if you ever found someone, they would have the same priorities as you.
Goodluck!
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jul 10
Hi mhekhies: I think that is not ok to concentrate too much on the fact of having a couple and fell in love. We just need to live our lifes and eventually love will knock in your door. Even with that, you don't have to worry about this subject too much. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
25 Jul 10
Well, you are not alone. I feel that, too! But I don't plan to close my heart.. hehe... Because we'll never know when that someone will come. I think, just live your life and let it be.
Sometimes I feel so damn alone too. I don't know what is wrong. Why it is so hard to just be with someone I love. Thing always happens this way, that someone that I love doesn't want me or that someone I don't love comes and bugging me all the time. ^_^"
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
25 Jul 10
Hi mhekhies!
I know it's nice to drop by once in a while as you have. I hope you continue to do so and share more of your current experiences. I wish you the best in your new job, your new endeavor. 
