What is a good friend?
By Bluerain25
@Bluerain25 (812)
Philippines
July 24, 2010 11:06am CST
* someone who will support you no matter what - i got tans and sara. always there for me even im too moody
* someone who can trust you and who judge you - still i got the two listed above
* someone who wont put you down or deliberately hurt your feelings but will show you kindness and respect
* someone who will love you not because they feel they have too because you are their friend, but because they choose to.
* someone whose company you'll enjoy and whose loyalty you can depend upon - you will enjoy my comapny if you can watch jackie chan movies with me. :D
* someone who can laugh when you laugh.
* someone who will be around when things get rough - As long as i am not at home when im with my family nobody can bother me :D
* someone who makes you smile. - not all the time
* someone who can accept you for who you are and just lend you an ear when you need to whine or complain
* someone who will cry when you cry - this is exaggerating i can be the drama queen LOL!
* someone who will give you room to change - TRUE
* someone who will be there no matter what the situation is - hmmmm like? the question is WHAT MAKES YOU A GOOD FRIEND?
20 responses
@pirate451 (152)
• India
26 Jul 10
Good friend is those who help in struggle and when we need, as saying goes 'friend in need is friend in deed'.Those friend who are kindness,trusted,Lovely,were the true friend and good.Each and every step we need friends without friend I think we can't do anything,Good friend always help in positive way.Friends are more important then other because they will be their when ever we need and want.I feel proud of myself because I have a lots of friends which they all do good to me and help in when ever I need.Friend Loves is Like a water following in river and is not like a difadiol which bloomed today and wehtrew away tomorrow.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Very nice definition of a friend pirate. Happy for you to have lots of them.
@ronaldallan1916 (154)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
A good friend is someone who doesn't sees you as a friend when he/she is in need. A good friend never withdraws back or leaves you when you are in trouble. A good friend instills good values and never pushes his/her friend into wrongdoings. A good friend doesn't always gives praises but also criticizes you for your wrongdoings and mistakes. However, a good friend accepts you in spite of your shortcomings and imperfections. A good friend may be similar to a diamond; difficult to find but when you find one, you'll be one lucky man on earth.
@ronaldallan1916 (154)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
A good friend is someone who doesn't sees you as his friend when he/she is in need. A good friend never withdraws back or leaves you when you are in trouble. A good friend instills good values and never pushes his/her friend into wrongdoings. A good friend doesn't always gives praises but also criticizes you for your wrongdoings and mistakes. However, A good friend accepts you in spite of your shortcomings and imperfections. A good friend may be similar to a diamond;difficult to find but when you find one, you'll be one lucky man on earth.
@jhonlex (6)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Being a good friend it is not just having a good times with others it's also about how willing you are to put your friend first or point out when they are doing something you don't agree with. Have a read through my checklist and see how good a friend you are.
1.Are you a good listener
2.Are you approachable
3.Are you a trustworthy
4.hmmmp Do you Avoid gossiping about others
5.are you selfish rather that selfish
@rtsh_gup (185)
• India
29 Jul 10
According to me good friend is the person who share his/her feeling ,having love and care,trust and showing respect to other peoples.I always consider he/she is a good friend friend of me , when they support me when I am down.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
That's true friends will lift you up when you are feeling down.
@kshp_dpk (213)
• India
26 Jul 10
All the point you said is right.Its difficult to find good friend in our life.To be a good friend there should be a respect among us.Being a good friend is not just having a good time with each other.Friendship is very important in our life.Friendship makes person happy in their life.Being a good friend is not liking you friend and all the time talking with them.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Respect is one of the most important factor why friends stick together. Without it the friendship will vanish without a trace.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Loyalty is one great aspect in friendship. When your friend tell you some secret or tell you in confidence, do not tell it to others. It is when trust earned that you two can become good friends
@captain534 (177)
• India
27 Jul 10
As a sayings goes friends are in needs are friends are in deeds.Helping,kindness and trust,understanding,character make us good friend.Good friends are always there for me even i am too moody they never put me down or deliberately hurts my feelings but he or she will show me kindness and respect.Good friends never let alone in every situation.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Hmmmm everything you've written here are qualities of a good friend. about being too moody well i have mine too. Im tooo moddody at times that i dont want to talk to any of them. Beu they are stillaround waiting for me to open up for them.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
hmmmm nice one huh, so i am a good to this one person because i keeps on lending him even though he's not paying me back.. :D just kidding that was a year ago he can not owe a dime from anymore
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
25 Jul 10
All of what you have put.I think to be a good friend to some one aswell is the same as them being the same to you.I think that saying that sometimes there are people out there that tend to try to stir between friends,like say that they have been back stabbing you where as they have not.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
You cannot avoid such person jugs. They are all around us. That's why we have to be careful in choosing who our friends are.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
24 Jul 10
yes^^ good friends do all that^^ always be there for us and even if doesnt like something that is important for us they still do^^ and yes friends also cry when we cry bcs it hurts them that we are sad^^ im a friend like that but unfortunately i never had much lucky :( anyway is ok i have few that are good and thats enough for me^^ we all need a friend to be happy completely^^ we all need care and advises^^
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Hi sweetlove, we are lucky enough to have at least one good friend. They are our treasures.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Hi aldawn, one good friend is enough than to have lots of them who can never be your good friends. I'm lucky to have two of them.
@george000 (166)
• India
26 Jul 10
Good friend make me to be free from loneliness. some one who listen to my problems and understand me.Good friend is a right hand who does every thing for me.Good friend will guide us and show the right way.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
True george good friends are there when we are lonely. Listen to us and will never be tird in listening to our woes. :)
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Finding good friends are just like trial and error. I dont usually give my full trust to a person i just met. Sharing sadness is great. You will know a true friend once you'll see them constantly in times of sorrow, in times when you are most in need of a friend.
@iceamber (68)
• United States
24 Jul 10
What makes me a good friend is how I'm willing to do anything for my friends, and how we share almost everything with one another, like sisters/sister-brother. It's amazing to have friends because they're a sibling that you've always wanted if they're a great friend to have around that you like. You can definetley count on them for anything, and they love you.:)
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Hi ice, Your friends are so lucky to have you. For me good friends are more than a sister or a brother to me. Im much closer to them.
@carline612 (142)
• India
26 Jul 10
All of what you have mentioned above makes a good friend.For me what makes me a good friend is the way I help and support them whenever they are in problem.To be there whenever they need me at anytime.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Hi carline, you are such a good friend. They are lucky to have you. keep it up
@inocentes (78)
• Philippines
25 Jul 10
What makes me a good friend is all you have stated. Im always and remain a friend no matter what, someone even told me, im more than a sister to her. Real friends are a precious gem
@will_win (222)
• India
29 Jul 10
Wow that's means you love and care a lot to your friends and I appreciate.........what makes me as a good friends is that,I have love forever but they have never looked me back.I always helped them in there bad situation ,but they left me in darkened days ,no matter how I want to placed in my heart but they still knocks me down...............still I love them.
@ashton77 (292)
• India
24 Jul 10
All of what you have mentioned makes a good friend. What makes me a good friend is the respect I have for all my friends.What makes me a good friend is the time I give to my friends even though I know that I need to be in my office and be working. What makes me a good friend is the way I am happy when they succeed and guide them when I feel that they are getting carried away in the wrong direction.
@westbird321 (232)
• India
29 Jul 10
Good friend is someone who be there for you whenever u needed or not. Someone who always support you and guide you to right way.
