Fall in love with my best friend..

July 26, 2010 8:18am CST
i falling love with my best Friend... what i should to do? i'am so confused..
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9 responses
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
I asked myself that question years ago...and since I wasnt able to settle it the moment i was feeling it, I ended up in a world of confusion for a long time. I think what you should do now is to ask yourself if it's really love that you are feeling for your best friend...or maybe you are just overwhelmed by the feeling that you have each other around most of the times...but I think you should not suppress how you feel, and take the risk, rather than be forever wondering of what might have been if time will pass you by...besides, if the friendship that binds you and your best friend is founded with trust and enough strength, then whether your best friend likes you to or not, you'll stay friends, no matter what...as in the line in the movie My Best Friend's Wedding said, " WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE, SAY IT OUT LOUD, OR THE MOMENT JUST PASSES YOU BY" I am sure you don't want to regret it in the future right? =)
26 Jul 10
you're right i think i must hold talk to her.. Thank you dear.. you're very helpful.. ^_^
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
good luck...=)
@will_win (222)
• India
28 Jul 10
Wow that great,but you have to know whether from other side loves you or not and friendship is the first step of love.Why don't you seek help from your friend to ask indirectly to him that to whom does he love.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
Love cannot be avoided,we may fall in love with our best friend or best enemy. Well,let it be,tell her that you love her,so you will know about her feelings too. Who knows,she might loved you too,and just waited for you to propose on her. Good luck and have a good day always
@Shinyqiu (119)
• China
27 Jul 10
It sounds a good thing to fall in love with u friend.At first,you must confirm that you love him as he love u.It's very important or that we will be embarrassed and confused by each other.Second,after confirming this feeling,I think u can get a change to him,tell u loyal opinion for loving feeling,if u open your heart to him,so that u will not regret this chance.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
26 Jul 10
I've done that before. And i have to say ... it was not the best choice i had. I was getting jealous and was thinking about him all the time. But i was sure that if something happen between us, we will never be friends again, because we are too different as people. I loved one kind of guys - not like him, he liked other girl of girls - not the same as me. He found girlfriend, i was joking about her all the time. But i am very happy, because he acted as adult and we are still friends, without any kind of relationship in our past. Now i respect him very much and i hope he still remember me as a good friend. We don't see each other very often, but i still keep our friendship as the best i've ever had. I hope it's the same with him. But i know that if i call him and if he is free to meet me, or he is free to talk with me, he will do it.
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
just go with the flow.. If you love him/her, just show it.. it doesn't mean that if you love someone, he/her should love you back... just let him/ her feel your love.. in the end there will be no regrets and no "what if"s.. right??
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Jul 10
If you feel you are having romantic feelings for your best friend, you need to find out if your friend feels the same way about you. You don't want to lose a good friendship when the romance is one-sided. If you both have the same feelings, a new bond and level of relationship can begin. If only one of you feels the romance, it is better to stay friends. Friendship is an everlasting bond. Can you afford to lose it?
@ashton77 (292)
• India
26 Jul 10
Well that's the best thing. Friendship is the first step for love. Having said that, you also need to know the other side of the story. Do your friend has the same feeling as you do? Do your friend sees you the way you see? There are some of these questions and you must be sure about the answers. You don't want to ruin this friendship. Wish you all the best, and try to find the other side of the story.
@antilove (191)
• Vietnam
26 Jul 10
If you don't say, he/she doesn't know the your feelings to him/her. If I were you, I would show my love to him/her. Whether he/she accepts or not, you will still be pleased to release ur feelings. Don't be so nervous, just go on...