Would you change yourself for someone?

Guangzhou, China
July 27, 2010 3:30am CST
Hi my friends, would you change yourself for someone else that you love so much?Do you think it is a easy thing fo ryou to do? As far as I am concerned, I think it is really so difficukt for me to change myself for someone. Is it that I have not find my true love one? Is it that I just do not care her so much? What about you? Would you change yourself for someone?
5 responses
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
It depends on what to change. If that would be for a better you, why not. But you are right, it's difficult to change ourselves for somebody. It's not that we don't care for others,it's bad habits are harder to break. More important is how we improve ourselves by changing what we need to change.
• Guangzhou, China
30 Jul 10
Yeah, as far as I am concerned, I think I do agree with you so much that it will difficult for us to change someone ,even ourselves. But some good things, I think we had better to change ourselves ,though we do not like to.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
29 Jul 10
For me it would really depend on what kind of changes that were being asked of me. For example, I dated a guy one time that wanted me to quit smoking, but I wasn't willing to do that for him because I didn't think that there was really a future in our relationship. However, when I met my husband, I did have to make some slight changes in my life and it didn't bother me at all because I knew that there was a future in our relationship.
@doormouse (4599)
27 Jul 10
i don't think people can change for someone else,you are who you are and that's it,people can try to change for someone but it won't work because they will always slip back to how they used to be,as they probably didn't want to change in the first place
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I would if it will be for the better. But if it will be changing for the worse then I'd prefer staying as I am.
• India
27 Jul 10
hi, changing for others is bit difficult but if it make my people happy and if i am happy with the change then i will surely make a change.