whos more weak...LOVE/LOVER..?

India
July 30, 2010 8:19am CST
What happens when your love life does not work?? Whom do we blame?? LOVE or LOVER ? Are we strong enough to decide as to what step do we take next..or just give-up!!? The most common answer to this is that we think that we were not meant to be together!! WHY ??
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12 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
I think everyone who is in love is susceptible, everyone who is much in love is vulnerable - at all times. our greatest strength, that capability of loving others, people other than ourselves and our own family - that what makes us weak too because it can both make us do great things and also hinder us to do more.
@csh66112 (23)
• China
31 Jul 10
love is the heart of love.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
Love is not to blame. It is always the lover who did mistakes that make a relationship break or lost someone. Lovers are not honest and faithful that leads into cheating and breaks someones heart. If only two people can love each other faithfully,no heart will be broken in the name of love. Have a wonderful weekend
• United Arab Emirates
30 Jul 10
You cant blame either of it...its the situation that need to be blamed. you ned to have confidence on your love and faith on your lover.
• India
30 Jul 10
cherie, dedicating our life to our loved ones is the love. if the love doesnt work , then we should not blame others, may be we are not properly dedicate ourselves towards the loved ones. Nowadays, the most common one liner when our love doesnt work is, "machi vidu, setta avalane seekku vittuchu... vudu maamu"
• Jamaica
31 Jul 10
If you really love the person that you are with those things will never be a problem. When you love a person with all your heart you see past imperfections and weaknesses. I think that when you are in love or you love somebody that you have to be there for the long road. The only person that is too blame is the person that is not willing to try and make it work. I also think that a student can only be as good as the teacher, if you can read between the lines.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Jul 10
To answer your title itself I truly believe that we should blame the LOVER not the love. Because the Lover is the one who is working out to the relationship to make it good or worst, stronger or weak. And most specially of course Lover will form LOVE to the special person. I think it really depends on lovers of how come they realized that they were not meant to be together. Sometimes there are issues behind it like third parties, routine arguments, different beliefs and attitude issues of each lovers that can't be settled.
@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
We are masters of our fate and we are the captain of our souls, whatever the result of your action, you only have yourself to blame. If all is done in accord with true love, most of the time it's flawless. Love is charity, love is kind, love does not envy and love knows no jealousy.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
The love is weaker than the lover, no matter how hard we try to let somebody love us, still it will come in a point that you will get tired to push yourself to someone. Love is a feeling in which there is no need to learn, you will just feel that in a perfect moment. It is not you who will choose to love but it is your heart and not the brain.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
As the in the lyrics of the song said, "It's the lover not the love, who broke your heart last night; it's the lover not the dream that didnt work out right. If you listen to your heart, you'll know its true. it's the lover not the love who deserted you." So I believe that we should not blame love for a failed relationship...love is always there, people may come and go, but we should not give up on love. we may not hold on to the person who loved us and we loved, but in one way or the other, time will come that we will feel the love again...love is constant, it's the people who change...
• India
30 Jul 10
Blame is of lover...lover are human being and human being is full of doubts.
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
when your love life does not seem to work various reasons can pile up. destiny has a lot to do with it. You see, when you are destined to be together, no matter what obstacles and trials you two may face, still you will end up together. Sometimes, you or your lover may have the problem. Try to reflect and see if you have the flaws and mistakes of having a failing relationship. You may lack time, communication and all those important ingredients to make your love life or your relationship work!