What will you do facing person like this?

So they're separating over a replaceable gadget?..I think they should let it blow over. That's nothing to argue over..Love is more important than electronics.

Hi charlies2805, This sad about the two roommates not being able to workout their problems, but it does happen. one roommate does something (serious or not)to annoy the other and the whole relationship is over. Nobody is mature enough to try and fix what is wrong. One thing is for sure, this can't go on forever. Somebody has got to make a move. They will either clear the air between them or someone will probably move out. If the roommate did indeed lose the electronic belonging of the other roommate, the right thing to do would be to say that she did it and find a way to replace it. Either she goes out and purchase a new one or give the roommate the value of the item in money. She really ought to take responsibility for what she did, if she did it. You said she didn't confess to doing it. So, How does the roommate know who did it? Maybe she is being falsely accursed.

This is just a simple problem if only those 2 people consider to sit and talked over. If they keep on with their immature behavior they will never met ends. One should be a mediator,and if you are one of their close friends i guess you can discuss this thing with them. It only needs one person to make them realize they both had errors and it cannot be answered with avoiding each other. Have a good weekend

King size egos/ head strong attitudes..they are never good for any relationship. In this case both the parties seem to be fighting for their egos rather than trying to understand the situation. Undoubtedly the lost article would have meant SOMETHING for the guy to start an argument, but the other person should have checked her ego and should have taken the argument to a better level...maybe she did...but the guys ego would not have accepted this...finally it's ego...

All of us have responsibility in everything we do and have, more when we borrow from someone else, may it be cash or object. We have to care for them like the owner does. It's not easy to have something and someone else lose it just like that. If the girl said sorry and promised she'll pay him for it or replace it. I'm sure the boy would not have been so upset. And so, using other people stuff and expect to be free of responsibility over losing it is very immature and how can one trust her again?

It is called pride. You could not live happily with it. It should be erased in our minds. For there case, it is just a thing that could be changed anytime they want. But because of pride, they suddenly change there mood to each other

first of all, its sad. dont think she meant to loose it, and she fees bad about it. to me if she say sorry for loosing it, yeah i know i might be upset as well but i wouldnt turn my back on a close friend like that. maybe if she would replace what she lost. and they can be friends again. good friends are hard to come by

They both are second and third class kids....!! Only they will behave like this..!! I am sure.!! Its wasting to discuss issue..!!

It all sounds childish to me. An eletronic gadget is hardly worth losing a friend over. Why would the boy-friend put more trust an faith into something material than an actual person? I am sure that one of the parties in this little scenario must have tried to reach out to save the friendship. I would think that she must have.

For me they are not just classmates, they are in a relationship, trying to live together. Anyway, if they separate because of the gadget, that would be too materialistic, it means that the gadget weighs more than their friendship or love. At first I think , the guy might get mad. But if you come to think of it, its just an object, it could be replaced. Friendship or love could not be replaced if it's real..

There could always be a solution for problems. I suppose the guy had a sentimental attachment to the thing rather than monetary value. But still they could always solve it. But could be that they were always looking for a reason to part from each other and this was an opportunity.

I think it is kind of sad that they don't speak, she should have been honest about what she had done and it would have been easier. I was in a similair situation where my camera was borrowed without my knowledge and consequently was broken and then put back in my cupboard and I found out later it was broken and the friend never owned up. The moral of the story is well we are not friends anymore and that friendship like any relationship needs honesty to work.

they're obviously acting the role of boyfriend-girlfriend... they should just start going out since they already live together, borrow stuff from each other, lose it and LIE. that's like an intimate relationship in my book. lol

I guess they should just be honest especially with the girl who lost the boy's gadget in the first place. It would be nice if they don't waste such a good friendship. They should both apologize.

our opinion you classmate is not bad , you slove the your problem with your freinds

i feel that girl have to make a move to that guy and try to explain him and make him understand.