do u hate it when someone leaves your room without closing the door??

@abj163 (1037)
India
July 30, 2010 8:06pm CST
i dont know what about others but i just hate it when someone leaves my room without closing the door.....i just like to stay in my room when i am home and i want silence every time thats why i close the door every time but sometimes someone comes in and leaves without closing it...i just hate it.....but now my family members are familiar with that and they close the door every time....so what about you mylotters?????
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22 responses
• Canada
31 Jul 10
Yea I hate that too. The door was closed for a reason! My parents always come into my room, look at me, then walk out and leave the door wide open! Haha, its a little annoying to have to get up and close it when I already had it closed.. Maybe I'm just lazy, I don't know. I can never sleep with my door open though.
@abj163 (1037)
• India
31 Jul 10
haha you and me we have maximum things common.......i am also lazy....my parents also sometimes leaves the door widely open and i hate it..... happy mylotting
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
Just make sure you orient the people around about what you feel so that next time they enter and leave your room, they will see to it they are closed. I understand what the two of you feel, because not only a matter of privacy, but also for security reasons. What if somebody from outside your house break into your house? If your room is always closed, there is an added security...
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
i also those kind of person. it felt like they are not respecting my privacy. It was like they dont care about my comfort or sometimes it might be over reacting because i was so lazy..
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
31 Jul 10
Well no I'm not like this I don't care if my door is opened or not. Still on th other hand my brother is like you he always wants his door to be closed, but I know it irritates him and I find it funny because I will leave his door open just to make him mad I think he's getting over it though. I think he's starting to not care anymore. I guess after so many times of me leaving his door opened he got used to it.
@abj163 (1037)
• India
31 Jul 10
hey dont do that because when my brother leaves my door open then my brain burns like an engine of railway......i gets angry so much.....i also control my anger like your brother but i think of that thing that why he left the door open....means i think it was a mistake or purposely left open.....so i cant concentrate on my work studies and other things.......so pz dont do that happy mylotting
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
26 Sep 10
Hi. abj163. Sometimes I don't like when my bedroom door is opened. If I have it already closed, I would like for someone to close it back like I had it before. When I don't want to be disturbed, I will put the lock on my bedroom door.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
31 Jul 10
Your room is your domain. Whether it be family members or friends, they should have respect for your privacy. It should only be common courtesy to close someone's door when you leave their room.
31 Jul 10
Yes I hate it. I am always respectful and close other people's doors for them when I leave their room but it seems I am not getting back that same respect. So anyone who leaves my door open I do the same to them. My brother does this, he also sometimes leaves the lights switched on so when I come back to my room it's still on and a waste of electricity.
• Brazil
31 Jul 10
Yeah, i don't really care when i'm doing nothing, but if i'm inside it pisses me off, they see that the door was closed, it means we want privacy, they come inside and leave it open, aww c'mon, is it so hard to close again?
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
Hi, It is fine with me when someone leaving my bedroom without closing the door.the most important is that person has to knock my door before entering my bedroom. I seldom close my bedroom door,unless I am changing or sleeping,or else I prefer to leave it open for some fresh air.
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
definitely hate it...but it depends.. sometimes theres a need for the person not close my door...
• Romania
31 Jul 10
I hate when someone leaves the room without closing the door!that happend to me many time at office....like there is no use for that door!
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
31 Jul 10
Yeah I hate that. Worst then that is when someone does NOT ask if is it to leave it open or closed. I can think in something even worse, when you are discussing with someone and this someone closes in your face, that really pisses anyone off.
@Satenik (102)
• Armenia
31 Jul 10
The wort part of it is that you have to get up and close the door yourself. I hate that. At work also I can't stand it when they leave the office door open. I sometimes think of putting a sign on the door "close the door, PLEASE".
@csh66112 (23)
• China
31 Jul 10
HEHE,is to have a good habit.
• India
31 Jul 10
Similarly, I don't like if someone entered and leave my door unclosed. I Like to stay alone and silent in my room. I just hate to live in noisy place. I do feel uncomfortable when my door is unclosed.
@cachehit (166)
• China
31 Jul 10
i don't care about it ,but if i want to stay alone .the door must be closed or i will scold the person who don't close the door.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
I guess it is normal to get angry when people come and go inside our room without closing the door behind. I don't like it too esp when i want to be alone then suddenly someone come in and won't close the door. Our room is the only private place we can say we own in our house so i guess we had all the rights to implement our rules(it is our little private own thing) My kids knows when is the time i want to be alone and they know i don't want to be disturb. have a good weekend
• China
31 Jul 10
I also like to close my door when I go out , and I always ask others who leave my room to close my door . I think what they do is polite for any hosts . Therefore I think if someone ignore this trivial things , he or she will annoy the masters . Do you think so ? Friends , share your thoughts .
• United States
31 Jul 10
Yes I really just hate it. Whenever my mom leaves my room she constantly leaves the door open, making me get up from whatever I'm doing in my room (usually sleeping or playing Xbox 360 cause thats all I have in my room) and then I have to close the door. It sounds like I'm just plain out lazy but I'm not. It's just really annoying.
• India
31 Jul 10
ya I hate if someone keep the door with out closing when they enter or go out because we don't know what type of person may enter in at which situation.I cannot trust anyone I may keep my wallet open and go for bath, if some body come and take my things or money so to whom I will tell.I know if we keep the door closed we will not get fresh air,keep your window open when you are inside and don't forget to close when you are going out.
• Jamaica
31 Jul 10
That drive me crazy and I hate when somebody even comes in my room. I just think that my room should be off limits.
• Jamaica
31 Jul 10
I hate it too... my mother especially likes to do it. says i'm too isolated in my room with the door closed.... i find it annoying... especially when i want to listen to music or talk on the phone and i can barely hear because of the house noise coming through the open door...