What is your main defect?
By rappeter13
@rappeter13 (8608)
Romania
July 31, 2010 2:51pm CST
We all know that we are far from perfection, but everybody has a main defect that he hates most. I think my main defect is the fear from failure and that is way I am afraid to start doing many activities. I rather stay aside from taking responsibility.
How about you? what do you hate most at yourself? what would you change? or what can be improved? please share....
6 responses
@mabey1 (334)
• Romania
31 Jul 10
i have to say my main deffect is that i'm a verry stubborn. many times my husband said to me that he never meet a persone as stubborn as i am ,although he's stubborn to. this deffect of my sometimes proved to be an asset. it help me many times when things got though and i needed to hold on. so i would say that my main deffect is my main asset also.
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
31 Jul 10
I agree that stubborness can be an asset and a defect as well. When you have a firm plan it is good to stick to it, but when you are wrong and go in that direction, than it is a defect and harm you and others a lot.
@mabey1 (334)
• Romania
31 Jul 10
yes you're right. becaus eo gmy stubbornes i have suffered a lot, and many times becouse of my own fault. as years go by you gain a certain amount of wisdom, or should i say i like to think that.so i learned that sometimes is good to let go of one's stubberness and if it's needed even say sorry.
@dio123 (1788)
• India
31 Jul 10
I hate tough things in my life. I want to live a very cool life all the time, but I know it is not possible. As life can rude and can good sometimes. One cannot hope everyday will be good for you. This is only one of my main fear or defeat as you say for my life. I alwasy want to live in comfortable situation and I hate tensions and fears.
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
31 Jul 10
I feel the same way: I hate pressure, but sometimes the pressure is what gives me extra strength or power to overcome difficulties.
@Ford666UK (99)
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31 Jul 10
Mine would probably be my lack of confindence. Due to my lack of confidence I'm shy in real life and rely on the internet more to meet people and communicate. I have got better since being with my fiancé, he seems to have brought me out of my shell more, but I still lack lots of confidence
@CarlitosAranha (58)
• Brazil
31 Jul 10
My maind defect would be to make everything playing.
I don't really know that it would be a BIG defect, cause sometimes it does helps, but when i need to be serious i can't i keep joking.I'm not sure why, maybe because these serious times would be showing my emotions and it's not something that i feal confortable, it ends up being automatic, what about u guys?
