my mums moving

@doormouse (4599)
August 1, 2010 3:55pm CST
my mums moving closer to me and the kids,she hasn't lived near us for 10 years,although she does'nt live that far away,only 75 miles,but because of my illness i can't drive that far so don't see her much,she is also ill,but when she moves it'll only be 10 miles up the road,so i'll be round there every week for dinner and possibly sometimes after kids come home from school,i can't wait,and the kids will love it aswell
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@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 10
You are blessed. My mother lives in a different island, and I only got to see her once a year. I asked her to live with me, but she loves her independence. I wish she lives near me, cause she is a good cook and I often missed her foods.
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@doormouse (4599)
2 Aug 10
my mums food is good but i think mine is better,she tends to over cook the vegetables
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
3 Aug 10
Ah, you are talented. I don't cook much, so I miss my mother's foods.
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• United States
1 Aug 10
You are truly blessed as not too many family members care that deeply to up route their lives to assist someone in need. I wish you lots of joy during your visits.
@doormouse (4599)
1 Aug 10
i am blessed to have such a fab mum,she's lived away from us for 10 years,now she's ill awsell and can't work i think she's realised just how much she misses us
• United States
1 Aug 10
God bless her wonderful heart and yours
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@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
2 Aug 10
Hi doormouse, I am truly envious. My family is about twelve hundred miles away from me and I can't stand being that far away. Unfortunately the state in which they live in is very expensive. So, I live in a less expensive state and I travel to see them once or twice a year. Not all children want their parents living close to them. I think it is great how excited you and your children are to have your mother moving closer. It will be a good thing for all of you, since you both are having some illness. Family is so important,even more so will you become ill and need them around just in case things got worse, which I pray they don't. Enjoy those dinners and grandkids spending more time at grandma's house.
@doormouse (4599)
2 Aug 10
i'm sorry to hear that you live so far away from your parents,maybe in the future circumstances will change and you can live closer to each other
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
4 Aug 10
There is something that is truly wonderful about being near your parents. My mother only lives six and a half miles away from us and because of that we are able to visit her on a regular basis. I think we are at her house at least one time each weekend and frequently at least one day during the week as well. She and I have always been very close and I think that the closeness between the two of us is going to continue throughout our lives.
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@doormouse (4599)
4 Aug 10
my mum and i weren't close until i left my ex husband,ever since then we speak on the phone about once a week and try to meet up at least 5 times a year
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
Well, that is good doormouse, you will have more bonding moments with each other and what more you will be able to help each other. Besides, the kids would always love to be with their granny. I am sure you mum will be very happy with her decision of moving near you. Senior citizens usually needs somebody to talk to and someone to be called whenever they are lonely and needs companion.
@doormouse (4599)
7 Aug 10
my mums not a senior citizen she's 51,but she is ill,and some days she days look like a senior citizen lol
@Crog81 (9)
• United States
2 Aug 10
I feel for you. I feel for you.
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@doormouse (4599)
3 Aug 10
i can't wait,it'll be great,thanks for the reply
@AmbiePam (85963)
• United States
2 Aug 10
That's absolutely wonderful.
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@doormouse (4599)
3 Aug 10
hopefully it'll only be about 6-8 weeks,providing everything goes to plan and their house sale does'nt fall through
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
1 Aug 10
That is so sweet! I bet you are excited! I would be if one of my daughters moved closer but since they are military it's not in the near future!
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@doormouse (4599)
1 Aug 10
when they come out of the military it may be different,hopefully they will move closer to you
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Aug 10
hi doormouse that will be so lovely for both of you, as you can see her a lot more often and know how she is, not worry so much about her either. Ten miles is great, wish no come to think about itmy son lives about four miles from me but he works now during the week so comes to see me here at GoldCrest on the weekend.
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@doormouse (4599)
1 Aug 10
that's lovely that he sees you every weekend,my dad lives 10 minutes away and i only see him every few months,normally birthdays,easter and chistmas,unless there is a good film on at the movies then we go there together
@Humbug25 (12540)
1 Aug 10
Hi there doormouse Aww I am really happy for you. I live a two hours drive from my own mum and get to see her on average every 6 weeks or so. It would be nice if we lived closer to each other and I now my kids would love it too, they love their nan.
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@doormouse (4599)
1 Aug 10
my youngest has never lived close to his nanny,she moved away before he was born so he does'nt know what it's like to live near her,he's really excited