Chapter 1-Too Young to Get Marry?

Philippines
August 2, 2010 7:05am CST
I'm just 20 yrs. young, one year soon I'll be having my debut party. My life is just starting or my career will just begin. They say at 20's your life will be change, a new chapter and experience as a young adult. They say, you should learn to be independent and should decide wisely, well that is the ideal, enjoy life! as life's goes on. Enjoy being with friends "barkadas" as you often you want, because nobody prohibits you. Being in a relationship must be careful not to be caught. Not too friendly with other girlfriends or else? This might lit a fire with your girlfriend. Or you want that too. If she'll leave you then life is just that. Find another one. hhmmm... Well if you really love your girlfriend, be careful not too expressive physically. Well, you know what I mean. In our generations, expressing love more than "I LOVE YOU'S" is possible like "uhum!" making love. Though without the sacrament of matrimony these expression of love is committed. Well they say that this act of love strengthens the bond of your relationship. And being in this kind of relationship, it should accompanied with responsibilities and extra-extra careful. Pregnancy is at risks, so beware. There are lot of things to consider, If this scenario happens. I'm just 20 yrs. young! Am not ready yet. I don't have stable work, where am I going to get my family's needs. Milk for my baby, everyday needs of my family and what else, medical needs too. Of course I want my baby and wife to healthy during gestation. And my bachelor life will be gone. I don't want a family life yet. I still need to finish my studies. What job will I end up, If I'll not be able to finish my course. No allowances from my mama, no perks too! oh no! I didn't expect there things will happen to me. I was careful and precautions whenever we make love with my girlfriend. FYI I am a nursing student, so I should know, what can I do, my girlfriend is pregnant, I can't do such thing as aborting my baby. What will my family say? My mom, will get disappointed, I wasn't able how am I going to talk and reach for my girlfriend's family. I will be a daddy soon.
4 responses
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
Haha! I just can't relate with your life's scenario. Hehehe...just kidding!
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
Hmmn...just make yourself a better dad ever! Congratz! Dream of a better future. To successfully do that...always asks JH to guide you.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
3 Aug 10
haahaaha nice story, but you have to express within few lines, then we have a chance to understand easily. any ways welcome to the mylot. with all the best. and please read the frequently asked questions once...........
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
its hard to live without a direction in life. With the given situation you stated, your facing a serious responsibility. With that, you found the most important reason for existence. I mean, you know what you're gonna do. You know to whom you will live for. You had a baby now and its the sweetest thing you will ever have in this world. I am not a daddy (and I dont even had a girlfriend yet) but I believe being a dad is the best pronoun I could be in the future.
@nisa764 (60)
• United States
3 Aug 10
That's really cool, congradulations. You must be really nervous and excited. There will be a lot of change and responsibility in your life now but if you two are devoted to each other it will all work out. my friend just turned 18 and is engaged, so I sort of know the feelings you must be going through because she's going through the same thing. Good luck.