My mother refused to listen me what I said.

@sjaswon (635)
Jamaica
August 2, 2010 9:41am CST
I put my bag on the table. My mother came to pick up it to move bedroom. I upset to tell her that you remove it. She said she cleaned all room for looking good. I told my mother that the teacher gave me for done homework. She said nothing and walking away with her bad face. I put it again and done homework. When she came back and saw me what I done. It made her angry. she shouted you are terrible mess. I am not happy what she did to me. I tried to explain her. But She glared at me and yelled to also keep clean all room. I thought she is crazy. So I walked out from my house for peace. I explained my friends what happened. They felt hurt for me. Why don't she willingly tried to listen me?
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10 responses
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
3 Aug 10
Give her some days, she'll cool down for sure..
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
6 Aug 10
@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
3 Aug 10
Sure.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
2 Aug 10
Hi sjaswon, Maybe your mother is just having a bad day. I'm sure she is not in a bad mood everyday you come home from school. It is nice to have a mother who care about having a clean house for you to come home to. I do think she could have being a little less fussy about the bag on the table. The question is, is this the table where you do your homework everyday? If yes, then I don't really see why your mother got upset with you, because it was not a surprise that you would come home and do your homework there. If no, then you should understand why your mother was upset. She just cleaned the house and you come home and drop your bag wherever you please. You see, there are always two sides to every story. After everybody settle down, maybe you can find out from your mother why she was so upset with you doing your homework on the table where you always do it, right? I hope everything works out between you and your mother.
@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
2 Aug 10
Yes
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
I am sorry about what happened between you and your mom. Maybe your mom just want to keep your house clean and well organized. I am also like that,i want to put things where it should be place. Now,i guess you can do your homework inside your room so your mom will not get angry seeing all your things placed above the table. You need to understand your mom,and you can talk this matter with her too. I know it wasn't right to yell and keep shouting on you. Just say sorry to your mom and tell her about her mistakes too. Have a good day always
• India
3 Aug 10
Hey Dude,, We Know That MOTHER is The most precious thing that we can get in out life,,, God Cannot Be EveryWhere,,, So Only he has sent mother to take care of,,, Don't worry,,,, Whatever your mother will do that is for your benefit onlyy,,, So Don't angry with her,,, Just Listen what she says,,,,
2 Aug 10
Oh dear, mothers and teenagers (I'm assuming you are a teenager)! I'm usually the mother doing the nagging to my children so I hope you don't mind if I put what I think is probably her side of the story. This is what we mothers do - we clean and tidy up EVERY day. No one ever thanks us or even notices. They only notice when they can't find anything or something is not as clean as they hoped, then they blame us. No one helps us but they most definitely hinder us by leaving their bags and clothes around and by getting dishes and floors dirty. They expect us to pick up after them and to clean up after them. Sometimes we get so frustrated because we think our main task in life is to clean up after other people who don't even appreciate it. Despite all that we love all our children dearly and would willingly throw ourselves under a train to save them. So smile at your mother and say thank you for everything she does for you. Offer to do some cleaning for her. She'll be a nicer, less cranky person and you will benefit too! Lots of love to you both. XX
@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
2 Aug 10
Thank you for advice.
@nancy0618 (477)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
maybe your mother is too stressed out cleaning the house, and she want to keep it clean, you should have followed her to avoid any conflict, do not answer back to her because however you look at it she is still your mother. we should love and respect her
• India
3 Aug 10
sorry to hear that yours bag pick up it to move bedroom by your mother.Actually this not a big problem,small things happen happen for good only.What mother do she does for good only.She may thought that you will not do homework outside bedroom.Bed room is idol room you can considerate on your work. Mother do lots of work at home and keep the house clean, understand to your mom and keep the things in proper places.Though I am not a mother I too get frustrated if some one does not keep the things in proper places.
@aditya540 (328)
• India
3 Aug 10
I know how bad you could have felt, but i promise you this will be the most funniest and memorable moment when you grow up and recollect...!! Even i have same memories with me...!! I know you wont like this reply but will think when you enter 20's
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
3 Aug 10
Try to tell your mother that you will clean up after doing your homework. If it does not work, than maybe your mother is a bit obsessive on the cleanliness of the house. It does not good to contradict her, it will get her shouting at you.
@sinaj292 (602)
• India
3 Aug 10
I think all mothers are like this only..... we have to obay them with out looking for what they said.... because they are our mothers.........
@krnavtr (285)
• India
3 Aug 10
Very sorry to know about you and your mother.Your mom wants to refuse what you said as you are too young and on the other hand hope you are making the room dirty as soon as your mom finished cleaning.Hope your mom have got problem which makes her to do so but i think its all done unintentionally.