would you still go to hotels?
By aguas_aj
@aguas_aj (498)
Philippines
August 2, 2010 11:37am CST
If you're already married and has own house with own room or has privacy to do it with your husband or wife, will you still want to visit a motel or hotel even once a while to do it with your partner?
Personally, yes, it adds up the spice, romantic or excitement feeling of doing it in somewhere else aside from your own bedroom..
How about you? I want to know the opinion of other married people out there. And I mean, you and your wife or husband, NOT you and somebody else aside from your wife/husband.
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15 responses
@anobel1984 (75)
• United States
2 Aug 10
I am not married, but I have been in a long-term and committed relationship. We found it to be refreshing and romantic to visit a hotel once in a while. If we wanted to spice things up we would get a cheap motel room and drive separately to give the feel of a secret rendezvous. It was fun and it also caused us to appreciate our own room more.
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@arahvma23 (269)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
Yeah, like what other Lotters said, who agreed to visit hotels once in a while, it adds up to the excitement, it also keeps the fire burning between the couple. :)
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
4 Aug 10
I would love to actually, but my wife and I can't afford a hotel room LOL
@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
I missed the time we can visit different places/hotels. Maybe you can share with me the hotels or resorts that you have visited and the budget for the vacation? We sure want to get out in the city and have different insight from our usual hotel that we visit.
@westbird321 (232)
• India
3 Aug 10
I am married and we are living separate away from our own both parents. We have lots of enough privacy at our place. Only the thing is we both work and we get time only in morning and from late evening. And also our off day is on another day. However we are enjoying how much ever time we get and sometimes i take off on his off day.
@prinzekay (7)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 10
yes, my wife and I usually go to hotels to make things more exciting. The excitement builds when you are at a difference place than the usual. Plus, hotel has a great ambiance for couples.We did it every 2-3 months.
@puddinggirl (93)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
I agree, i may be unattached right now but believe anything that spice up relationship and would keep it stronger and would build up more trust and passion to the couple is a good thing. Going to hotels and motels once in a while is definitely a good thing. You can both focus yourselves to each other without having to hear and see and feel the daily commotion of your household. Its a best time to enjoy each other!
@allknowing (130066)
• India
3 Aug 10
I have a home that runs on well oiled wheels thankfully and so do not feel the need to eat out. But I consider eating out as an outing and I am more interested in the ambience than the food per se. A changed scene is what I look for and this is more so when we have guests and also to celebrate birthdays or such events.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
3 Aug 10
I have a home that runs on well oiled wheels thankfully and so do not feel the need to eat out. But I consider eating out as an outing and I am more interested in the ambience than the food per se. A changed scene is what I look for and this is more so when we have guests and also to celebrate birthdays or such events.
@aurorastorm (1131)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Like you said if you have your own house, you have privacy, but I still love to stay at a hotel especially on vacation. It is nice break to get away from your home and the pressures of your life and it makes you feel more romantic than being at home.
@kennzsniper (170)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Yes.
Even if you are married, there are times that you need privacy and the pampering of the hotel room with rooms service can only provide.
@chinoxads (255)
• United States
25 Aug 10
Yes i would still got to hotels, because the couples need to be in a different place beside the house, you can be creative in that other place and can decorate the place. Both can escape from the routine of the house, you feel more relax because you are not thinking of the things of the house.
@jonry18200 (59)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
If I am already married I would like to go any place like motel or hotel in order to have a strong relationship. It's boring if you always in the house and make love making on your partner. But for me it is challenge to find some other place that romantic and can be relax.
