Why people arounding me all so negative

there are times that i'm down and i can't help but feel pessimistic... and it pulls me down even more... people would always see look at the bright side of things..it will help you out... and i did but it isn't easy..but it really helps to do so..because the more you worry about the problem..the bigger the problem becomes..so it pays to be optimistic...=)

hi Ruby well tell these people that those who always see the negative side of everything and are always pessimistic also have the greatest chance of having a heart attack. It seems studies have proved that being always gloomy has a bad effect on your heart. Maybe this will persuade them to look on the bright side of things instead. smile, joke, laugh as its good for your heart.We really should be optimistic as being negative will make us sick, and who needs to be sick? being cheerful and expecting good cause the law of attraction to actually bring good things to you. try it as its been proven.

Many people are negative....but i like to be opyimistic...think i am gonna be ok....

There are some people that see life as hard as it is, but there are a lot of them that value life and always see life beautifully. I know you want to help them as best as you can. If only we can give these people the things they want in life to keep them moving on. Just keep on trying to console and give them hope.

You felt that way because you seriously absorb their negativity. You don't have to please everyone just to feel your worth as a person. If they aren't happy with what you are doing, don't deal and dwell with them. Give them time to think what they are losing. And spare some time also to think what you've done lately with your life. Evaluate yourself. Most of all, pray. Seek guidance from him.

I know people who's gone through depression and it is hard having to hear every negative thing come out of their mouth. As for yourself, you need to be optimistic for them. You need to be the one who'll tell them that "everything's gonna be okay". You can't let yourself get affected by that person's problem, you need to the one who'll make it for them. Ever heard of the quote "Laughter is the best medicine"? I always try to make people smile and laugh, It always works for me. Oh, and what if you fail? So what, at least you tried. :)

I have always been the type to believe that everything is negative for the simple reason that when I get happy endings it is more enjoyable. Perhaps because I have so many turmoils and disappointment in life is why I always feel this way. Always worried what the future will bring and always worried what the consequences will be.