Is this a NORMAL friendship??

seems to be that she is a little obsessed with you. maybe you should walk away.

Seems as if she's crushing on you. You better straighten her out if you don't plan on reciprocating her feelings for you else she'll think you're interested in her. But please be kind. You're freaking out, odds are, she's freaking out, too. But for an entirely different reason. Just be true to yourself and to her, since she's still your friend. Goodluck.

This girl is a nightmare. She is unstable and immature and she has become dependent on you. It doesn't matter what you do you are going to upset this girl somehow and not just once. She will make your life miserable. It's best to do whatever you have to to sever all ties with her and quickly. Be firm because she will get her hooks into you and that is not helping her to grow up. The longer you leave things as they are the harder they will be. Do not kid yourself that there is any love here. This activity is not love. She is not behaving like a friend either. She is the problem...not you.

Hi! I think you need to confront and probe her to know why she doubts your integrity, if at all she sends such kind of messages to you. You should tell her clearly that you love her and she should rely on you.

in my opinion,the girl just cares you too much more than friends.sometimes when people don't know how to deal with the person they cares,will go too far,but deep down,it's not their real self.tall to her about what you feel about her,things will be fine,i think.

hey man, this girls in-love with you. can you observe it, she just gone wild and crazy with you. Why don't you try to respond with it.

Am also facing some same problems......... I think all the girls are like this only.... first they will love us than anything....... then we also will start loving them at the same manner.... suddenly they will start such activities..... i think this is not your problem only ... all may facing such problems........

You talk to her and find out. If ever you find out that she is obsessing on you, you can tell her straight that you are just friends. unless you already have a girlfriend, you can take your friendship to the next level. Ask her gently why she is acting that way and if it is too awkward for you to do this, you can write a letter explaining everything and that would be a lot easier.

if u two arent boyfriends and girlfriends ,i think she may misunderstand the relationship between u two.in that case, just make it clear to her.explain it www.mustsoftware.com. must have a look,join in.

Well, you could just ask her straight if she has the hots for you. She obviously like you and acts like you're a couple. Maybe if you'll confront her, you'll caught her off guard and tone down a bit, she just might be too caught up with her feelings and is also confused herself.

girl it was hard to understand, but if you want to be patient a moment later he was surely aware, because i had also experienced the same think like that

I think that she is really in love with you. The question is now on you whether you love her or you just want to be her friend. You should speak to her. But remember do not make her shocked. You may from time to time let her know your decision. GOOD LUCK!

No, it is not normal if you mean the two of you are just friends. But it's rather a norm for couples in a relation. If so, I think you should give some serious thoughts about this relationship. I'd been in a rather similar situation before. My significant other was way too obsessed in controlling all my activities. She wanted a say in every decision and not me. Control over another is never a good thing, bro. It is real sad when you feel the freedom you had are fading away. Every little things need her approval and she'll checked up on you every now and then. It's really irritating at least for me as time goes by. And sooner later, I decided to end this relationship of mine, which lasted for quite some years to my disappointment. My advise to you is that if you're in a relationship with her, talk things out. For example, what you expect of each other, before things really turn ugly. Cheers.

she probley thinks that you and her are really close friends and she probley gets kind of jealous when you hang out with other people that are not her. maybe she thinks that you will get closer with the other friends that you hag out with and you might not hang out with her anymore. as for being the center of attention, she just wants to be good friends with everyone and have lots of friends.

Hi Albert, Sounds as if she might be insecure and also maybe has a little crush on you?? Some people act out in groups of people when they are nervous and unsure. Since you are friends I think it would help both of you if you sat down and talked to her. Tell her that her frequent complaining makes it so that you don't want to be around her. Also point out that she gets loud and annoying in group situations. She may not even be aware of how she is coming across to others.

It seems to me she is a little needy and maybe a tad controlling. You need to let her know how uncomfortable you are with this. Yes you may hurt her feeling a but, but if she is truly your friend, she will be fine.

she's got a crush on you~! how do you feel about her? to make things clear, you should probably talk to her. let her know if you can't reciprocate.

Sounds like she took the friendship to the next level and is hoping for a boyfriend relationship with you. Either way you need to sit her down and have a 1 on 1 with her. Tell her if you are willing to take it to the next step or tell her you are just willing to be friends and need a little breathing room. GOOD LUCK!

she is not ready to give up you in any circumstances and needs you in her life... its a sign of love.

I guess your friend fell in love with you. maybe your often togetherness and closeness was misinterpreted by your friend to be going to a higher level. Generally, women easily fall for men especially when we are given extra attention than they are giving to out other friends. Sadly, this vulnerability becomes a flaw and cause women to get hurt, because at the time that women are already assuming that the men like them and see them more than a friend through time, the men start to freak out and find it suffocating and mushy because they don feel the same. I think if you are not comfortable about it, if you are not in love with her, you should also start sending her some signals that will tell her that its purely friendship that you want. Women have the tendency to be suddenly possessive when they are not sure where they stand, insecurity sets in when lesser attention is being given by their closest guy pal, especially when they feel something about the guy.