falling in love is very easy but getting out of ot is very hard....do u agree???

@abj163 (1037)
India
August 6, 2010 7:32pm CST
i just think like that...i have said this on basis of my friends experience.....i haven't been fallen in love....may be i am but i got out of very fastly.....do u think that getting out of love is very hard for u...... have u did that before??? please share your experiences.....
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• Philippines
7 Aug 10
yes i agree, specially for a woman. woman easily fall in love with a man for his kindness,sweetness, affection,we always have a soft heart to fall for that person.i am in a situation that i want to get out in this kind of relationship. but it's hard specially if the man won't allow,i feel like i am always scared of what will happens next,if i step down.it's more harder if you are dependent to your partner,and now i start to realized that maybe this is the reason why i am not allowed ever since to work so that i cannot easily get away...
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• United States
7 Aug 10
i would have to say, falling in love is very easy but it's much hardergetting out of it. I have fallen in love my freshmen year in college, this was my 5th year with her. douring all those years she managed to cheat on me 4 time. and because of love, i still took her back. and finally i desited to get out. and 6 months later i still know that it was a true love between her and i. This relationship was the first one for her, so she was curious. after, we have been appart, she realized how much she did not apritiat the love between her and i. "we never know what we had, until we loose it!" good luck, TvdSoccer
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• China
7 Aug 10
I really agree with you!For me,it was really hard to forgot my first love.I once thought I could never forgot about it.But with time goes by,I fond that people can forget a lot of things!Everything will be past.So no matter what happen to you,keep a happy life.
@sunilpaul (173)
• India
7 Aug 10
Falling in love is "foolish" and trying to get out out of it? is "insane"...
@tweetbird (161)
• United States
7 Aug 10
I think "falling in love" is overrated.
• Saudi Arabia
7 Aug 10
I agree to that based on my own experience being in love is one of the best thing happened in your life but for some reason it seems not compatible in some things ended apart.I guess the key to prevent that is don't give everything when you are dealing with love so that when the worst time happen you have something for your self
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
I don't think falling in love is easy. I takes time for me to fall in love with somebody else. It is true that falling out of love is also difficult.
@aditya540 (328)
• India
7 Aug 10
Love is something divine and beatiful experience, there is a thin gap between love and attraction. Firstly, decide yourself whether you are attracted to he/she or love her. Im sure if you love her whole heartedly perhaps you can never get out of that feeling and it will surely desert you and your life. If you are serious about your relationship proceed other wise dont provoke others feeelings and play with it...!!
@jugsjugs (12967)
7 Aug 10
I think that like you say it is soo easy to fall in love aswell as get hooked on a person.When it comes to wanting or having to break up is soo hard,as it is a way that you felt, aswell as a person you have been with and spent alot of time with.In the end it works out well when you do realise that there is no hope no matter what as nothing will make a person stay in love.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
I can say partly yes and partly no. Falling in love is easy when we find the right one,but not easy if we are forced by circumstances to love someone. Getting out of love is hard when we love that someone and we had good times with him/her or shared many precious moments together. It is easy to kick someone our of our life is he/she is not worth loving for. Happy Sunday
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
Yes it's easy to fall in love, but getting out of it, forgetting the person is hard. Especially if you have shared or spent a lot of good memories with him/her. Or when you had already plans in the future together with this person. But end up breaking up. It would even be harder to forget, if you haven't talked about the real reason for parting ways. It remains a nightmare or keeps on bothering you, asking yourself, where did I go wrong? if I had been this way, would the relationship could have been saved? It's really hard to get or letting go of the one you loved.
• India
7 Aug 10
ya its a bit hard to forget your loved one..they more annoying thing is that you keep wondering what the hell went wrong..so its a bit tough to get out of love but a nice curvy girl may easily help you to forget past things..haha
• India
7 Aug 10
I strongly agreed with that.........but without love life is impossible.....!!!
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
i can really relate to this. Falling in love with someone is easier than getting out of it. Because you have to consider the person's feelings in deciding to go out of a relationship. The effect for the other person will not just be only for the moment but it will lasts for a long time, especially when that person was truly madly in love with you.
• United States
7 Aug 10
Yes, it is very easy to fall in love, but it is hard to break up with a person once you are with them. Also, the longer that you have been with them, the harder it is to break up with them.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
7 Aug 10
Hi, Falling in Love will make you forget about the world. Everything is sound nice and pretty in your eyes when Love is there. For me, I am not easily fall in love with someone. And just to let you know, it took one year for me to accept my boyfriend(he is my husband now). I just don't want to drag myself into a relationship without knowing a person well. Of course, a person can change from time to time,but at least within a year,lot of things might happen and we can see with our eyes,how is that person behave and his attitude and also his thinking. From there,then we can make a decision whether he/she is a right person for me or not.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
Most people would agree..including me :D For me it's basically because when you love you feel it hard and it remains to be a part of you no matter what the ending of the love is. True love is hard to be erased in your heart and mind so it's really hard to fall out of love easily.
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
7 Aug 10
Equally hard for me. You fall in love with someone - does that someone even like you? - ...now to get them to notice you - how? - all right, they noticed me..now what? - dating - more dating - should I have done this? Should I have done this? - finally you're together..or you think so at least - out come the dirty secrets - you're not sure if you're in love with the person anymore - back to square one... If you made it past that stage, which can be both exciting and devastating. Getting out of love is no cake walk either, expecially if you and your partner are close. Do I love them? - yes - no - maybe - no - I must move on - how? - they love me too much - don't want to hurt their feelings - gotta leave them - somehow.. - am I sure I want to do this? - I need another think about this - back to square one...
@romzz05 (572)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
in my case yeah in part, it took me years before I could really truly moved on but maybe because I'm also not the type to fall in love quickly. So i guess the more emotion you invest to a relationship the harder it is for you to fall out of love.
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
for me it is true .. base on my experience.. i have fallen in love with some one else. when he was a sign to the other place he was change. so i move on for two years. even if i have my new one now but still i can remember our bonding when we were together so hard to get out of it.