How do you get out of trouble when you started the trouble itself?
By aaronfyzeon
@aaronfyzeon (1919)
Philippines
August 7, 2010 5:17pm CST
My friend who is a captain of a ship got really close to me that he is sometimes flirting with me. I clearly know that he is a married guy so I refused each advances he makes. I really do not know how his wife knew all about this so the wife keeps bugging me all the time to back off. I clearly know that! I have been brought up well by my parents and also I am educated to know what I should do. So the thing that the captain did to get of that trouble that his wife already knows he is womanizing not only to me but with other girls as well, he now deleted his yahoo account which his wife hacked. as what he claims though. He just told me that he already deleted it and he just sent me an email and using now a different yahoo id.
Please tell me guys if you already got into trouble that you knew you have started it and how did you get away with it. Thank you and have a nice day.
3 responses
@shia88 (4570)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 10
HI,
In your situation,it is best for you to stop seeing
this man since he is married.Although both of you are going
into a deep relationship,but it is kinda of flirting and
does not bring a good impact for both of you.
Some more,now his wife has known about it and it is good
for you to talk to his man to end this relationship and be friend
only.
If possible, have a nice chat with his wife too to ensure her
that you have got yourself out from this complicated relationship.
Let her trust you and of course, you have to bear your own words.
Your life is still long and for sure,you can always get a better guy
for yourself.
Let's have a good start for your new life!!
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@aaronfyzeon (1919)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
Thank you shia88. Yes I already did had a chat with his wife. we met personally and had dinner with her but the time when she saw me made her more suspicious and i guess a bit insecured. Well I don't want to brag but then she is nice to me now but I really do not know if that is true. She will send me a text message 10 times a day and asking if me and her husband had a chat last night or if he called me yesterday. things like that! I just responded to her in a nice manner although I am really getting annoyed by what she is doing. But my patience is that long and out of respect for her and for my friend, i just get along really well with them as much as i could.
@Goldamier (104)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
If I were you should talk to that person secretly or along w/ his wife because no matter how you defend yourself that you've have had a try avoiding that person It would surely create rumors w/c will affect your status. Others might think negatively towards you w/c I don't think you want to happen. I know it's not good to always tend to please others but we can't deny the fact that what people tells affects us.
@danverxxcore (347)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
Stop seeing this man to get out of trouble. Thats just it. There are just some things he needs to learn by himself such us faithfulness.
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