Do you fall in love easily and fall out as fast?

Philippines
August 7, 2010 9:00pm CST
A lot of people do. When one shows affection it's so much easy to fall in love but a friend of mine told me that he doesn't fall in love easily. What he do is, when he likes a girl he make it a point to be close to her and then he find out everything about her before he decides to fall in love that way he said he won't fall for the wrong girl. And when he does fall in love he doesn't fall out of love that easily. Mmm, what do you think?
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@bent31 (85)
• Canada
1 Aug 12
I guess it's all different for everyone. Personally, I do fall in love easily and fall out fast. Depending on the situation if I see someone that I don't know, I'll fall in and out quickly or if I get to know someone then it takes a while to fall out of love. Love can make you do crazy things and if you ask me if I have done any crazy things for love? That's certainly a big YES.
• Jamaica
11 Aug 10
I fell in love in my late teens, after fifteen years i'm still deeply in love with him. I don't think I'll ever fall out of love with him. Even if it doesn't work out in the future, i'll always love him.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
8 Aug 10
Hi santosmarichris, I think I respect your friend's way of thinking very much. I am with him, I don't fall in love very easily or very often. I would rather have a long space between relationships than to rush into another that is destine to fail. The space between will give me time to unwind and completely purge the effect of the failed affair. Can it be real love when a person jumps quickly from one affair to another? How can he or she say that this is love in a week or a month after a breakup? That may happen, but think it would not be often. Your friend has the right idea, get to know the person, not just the outer appearance. One should really get to know the person's character before jumping into a relationship with someone you hardly know anything about. How do you know that this person is the one for you if all you are going by is what you see on the outside? Looks can be deceiving. It is better to look twice, inside and outside.
@nahiyar (12)
• Pakistan
8 Aug 10
If your love is true so you will always love with one even if other someone wants to have lave with you.it is my personal experience.I loved just one and loved her for 10 years and now we both have marriaged,although others wanted to have love with me but I didn't love them because I ever loved just one.
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
8 Aug 10
I fall in love about twice a day. LOL And I DON'T fall out of love - EVER.
@Suke002 (311)
• United States
9 Aug 10
That sounds like a good way to go, but you never know who is the right one really. The right one comes when you least expect it sometimes. But I have to admit, he's saving himself a lot of time and emotions by doing this though. I have to give him points on that, it's smart, and he won't get hurt and neither will she and they won't waste time on a bad relationship.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
hello there, i think i don't really fall in love easily. i admit that it's easy for me to admire people and appreciate the good things that they are showing me but it doesn't mean that i will fall inlove with them. falling in love is something that don't really comes easily for me, i think some people just misunderstood their feelings of admiration for being in love...just to find out in the end that they don't really love the person thus falling into falling out of love. haha for me, whenever i feel that i already fall in love with the guy, falling out of love is not easy as well. depends if he will do something that will change my feelings.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
8 Aug 10
There had been many lovable guys to whom I never really fell for, and only two in my lifetime to whom I was head over heels in a matter of days. They turned out to be really great guys. One was a past suitor. And the other one is my boyfriend. And no, I don't fall out easy.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
8 Aug 10
I have always been the kind of person who can fall in love quickly with someone. Falling out of love is harder for me. Sometimes i hang on when I should not. I am just a romantic and have hope for love to last.
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
Well no, but I have lot of crushes especially those good looking men but only crushes; I'm married and it's not right to fall in love other than my husband.
@roxxtime (299)
• United States
8 Aug 10
His way sounds better than mine, but I fall fast and hard and never really fall completely out of love. A part of me will always love the person I fell for and I have always had great break-ups so I leave as friends where it just wasn't meant to be. I wish I loved more like your friend but we all fall differently.
@hushi22 (4928)
8 Aug 10
i don't easily fall in and out of love. i have proven that for many times and long time. =)