I am outside your door.

@shibham (16977)
India
August 8, 2010 2:34am CST
hi everyone... this is my second discussion in this topic. i started this topic months ago, where there were less than 150 friends of mine... yet, i received a lot responses...so i am thinking to start this topic again where i have now more than 300 friends even more than 5000 mylotters are newly added. say, i am in your home town/city and eventually i come to know about your residence. so it makes me curious to meet you and just have knocked on your door. you have opened the door and faced a stranger. you become surprised but i have introduced myself as SHIBHAM from MYLOT. you have no problem to identify me as SHIBHAM bcoz u have seen me in mylot. what would you do then? hahaha... thanks in advance.
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@dpk262006 (58690)
• Delhi, India
8 Aug 10
I think we are not friends, but if you happen to locate me, I would welcome you. (BTW, I started a similar discussion many months ago, on the same issue).
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@shibham (16977)
• India
8 Aug 10
hi dpk.... what is the reason that we are not friends? thanks that you are ready to welcome me. i have not noticed that u started the same. @meluan..... let me marry.
• Thailand
8 Aug 10
i agree with you!!!1 :D
@shibham (16977)
• India
10 Aug 10
@jaiho2009 (39174)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
hello dear bhai, You were never a stranger when you knock on my door. I can surely recognize you my dear brother. Well,it would be a bit surprise but after staring at you for a while (just to know you are real,hahaha) I will asks you to come in and while preparing some food for you (wish i could make chapati )i will let you talk and talk about India . Happy Sunday dear
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
hi didi... i knew it that u are always ready to welcome your brother... just take some times to recognise me that i am really your brother. chapati... its a food from gujrat but my prime food is rice. anyway whats your prime food? again an another question... may be sounds like private.... do u have a brother of your own? good night didi.
@shibham (16977)
• India
13 Aug 10
oh... thats fine didi that we have the same prime food. i think i am the third one.. i mean your brother.... playing cards. oh... i like it and hope we shall enjoy a night with playing cards and laughing although i am a serious bhai. hahaha... take care.
@jaiho2009 (39174)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
hello dear bhai, Oh that's good,at least can prepare rice since it is also our primary food here. And yes,i had two younger brother,and we are very close to each other. The only prob is that they live far from me. So,each time we had the our vacation,it is always like a younger days to us. We can stay awake the whole night just talking,laughing,playing cards and sometimes strolling in the city at night.
@attente (987)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
As I have hundreds of friends here in mylot, I can not recognize all of you. thus, I would be hesitant to welcome you in our home. But I know if someone as beautiful as the girl in your picture would come in some boy's house, then you are very welcome. lols. But now I'm confuses, you're gender in our profile is male. So if you get to know my address and come here, I won't actually recognize you. ehhe
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@attente (987)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
oh of course i have visited your profile, that's why i know you're gender in your profile is a male despite your female picture. that confuses me.and i didn't notice your pictures, my bad. now I'm browsing your pictures. i think i can recognize you now if you come here in our house, with your wife please. my father would be shocked having a guy visitor, hahahha! lols. anyways, congratulations in advance! i mean about your wedding! :)
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@attente (987)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
oohhh. you're an actor! that's great! ehhehe. can you post a picture of your fiance? so when you come here, i can recognize both of you! lols. HAHA! :) be blessed!
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@shibham (16977)
• India
8 Aug 10
hi attente.... how are you? hope u will recognize me. hehehe.... kidding.. no no no no no.... i am a boy and i think that i should enter in your home with my wife. yeah i am about to marry a girl next year. i think if it happens,,,, no hesitation can take place. i think you are not interested in a close friendship. don't mind.... i am just saying it as i have assumed that u have not visited my profile. i have lots of photos of my own in my profile. u may check it out... if u wish//?/// have a nice day.
• Pamplona, Spain
8 Aug 10
Hiya shibham, First of all I think I would be a bit hesitant as most of us would be I think because that´s only human nature. I think I would invite you to have a cup of tea or whatever you like to drink not just tea but I don´t usually have any other kind of drink except Coca Cola mainly because everyone goes to have their favourite Drink in a Bar with their Friends or in their House also. Oh I have Coffee too but I never usually touch Coffee except if they make it in the Bar and even then I only drink half of it. Actually it would be very nice to know you but none of us really knows each other only from writing on here so it´s a bit more awkward to start up a conversation right away or maybe not. You have come up with a good one here either way you would be very welcome don´t get me wrong it´s just that being from where I am the UK it´s not the thing you would usually do (fling your front Door wide open) but hey in a lifetime life is too short so yes I would welcome you. I still have that British reserve to a point but not half so much as before (grin). What is your favourite Drink by the way just out of curiosity? Take care now as always.
@shibham (16977)
• India
8 Aug 10
hi angel... its a common truth that most persons hesitate to welcome a stranger even he/ she is known by writings or mailings. actually coffee is a fine welcome drink and in case of other drinks... bars are always available here and there.... its right that hard to understand properly a person if has not ever meet in person. anyway, i thought u live in spain but here you are saying about UK. so? by the way, my favorite drinks is tea and whisky.... have a nice day.
@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Aug 10
hi angel... it means that your mother country is UK but you lived in spain with your hubby. right? yes, some times this problems occurs.. as i experienced that i had some female friends from my college and university life.... we had very close relations with each other... but after their marriage, our relations get minimized... u may say to somebody completely nil. oh... sorry then. actually whisky is my favorite only for the evening time. otherwise curd and lemon juice is okay for me. thanks for your hospitality once again.
• Pamplona, Spain
8 Aug 10
Hiya shibham, Common truth yes people will always shy away from others at first. Well being from the UK but I live here because I got married here my Husband is Spanish so you lose quite a lot of your reserve when you live here long enough which in a way is a good thing. The other side the downside of the coin is the negative way your Family accepts you once you have got married in this way but I bear no grudges. You like whisky that´s one Drink I don´t have. I have fruit juice too I forgot that one and milk also forgot that one too and I usually have plenty of fruit and biscuits going on top. So you would not hungry or any other.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Aug 10
Well i did come accross you a couple of times in the discussions..got no idea about you as a person though.so i wouldn't be shocked to find you on the other side of the door rather i would follow the phrase "Adithi Devo Bhava".you would get a nice treat...if you turned out to be a nice jovial guy then you would play some sports with me and my friends other wise .... would bid farewell lol.great day.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
yeah.. sunny. i think we are highly familiar to each other through our discussions. i think "atithi debo bhava" should be used for a traveler from abroad. as we are from the same country... so no need to treat me as an atithi..right? its our ultimate duty towards them who are from abroad. anyway... what is your favorite sport/ mine is cricket, badminton and carrom. @meluan... what is this?
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Aug 10
hey common that phrase holds good for all the visitors irrespective of their origins.so be prepared to be treated like a guest .As of my favourite sports --- Cricket,Chess,Volleyball and i'm good at Carroms can be a nice competitor Meluan --- you didn't annoy me ....better luck next time
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@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Aug 10
so it would be interesting to play cricket and carrom with you.... waiting to meet you very soon.....
@saphrina (31610)
• South Africa
8 Aug 10
Well let me see here, sweetie. I would probably invite you in, if you can really prove you are shiban. Or i can feed you to the neighbors dogs. Depends on the mood i am in, though. TATA.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
i cant prove myself as shiban where i am shibham in real. hahaha... neighbors dog???? i am too crazy... perhaps i am hesitating to enter in a house of a moody person.. @ meluan is sleepy now.
@saphrina (31610)
• South Africa
9 Aug 10
What??
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@saphrina (31610)
• South Africa
10 Aug 10
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@Sreekala (34402)
• India
9 Aug 10
Ha ha Shibham, I can recognize you but you can’t recognize me as you have not seen me. So I will ask who are you and will say you knocked the wrong door. I am not that particular person… I am so sorry…. Just joking, you are always welcome to our home…
@Sreekala (34402)
• India
9 Sep 10
Thank you so much for the BR.
@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Sep 10
you are welcome.
@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Aug 10
well sree... yeah.. it will be hard to recognize you. better i would like to receive a photo of your own just before knocking at your door... have a nice day and thanks for your words.
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@dragon54u (31619)
• United States
8 Aug 10
If I knew for sure that it was you, I would invite you in and cook you a meal. We could have a nice visit and if you needed a place to stay for the night you could use my spare room. I'm sure my dogs would be delighted to see a visitor, they are so rare in this house! Maybe I could show you some of the sights in my small town.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
so, i just one to ask what type of meal you will offer me? hahaha... no no no... i dont wish you to give you some extra burden better i would like to stay in a hotel nearest to your residence. your dogs???? are they ready to bite or bark? yeah... be sure that it will be a nice tour to travel in an unknown town with a mylit friend. lots of gossip, coffee and many more. have a nice day and many thanks for your nice response.
• United States
8 Aug 10
To tell you the truth I would probably shut the door and lock it. Can we say "Crazy Stalker?" LOL
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
no friend. let me live this way.... hahaha.. @ meluan...
@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Aug 10
ghhhrrrrr...
@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
8 Aug 10
Well, I will invite you inside my home if I get to see your picture prior to doing so. If not, I will invite you to a coffee shop near my place and exchange pleasantries with you.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
yeah... just give a look on my profile bcoz at any moment i may knock at your door. hahaha... yes, that would be an extra experience to take a cup of coffee with a mylotter in an another city. have a nice day.
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
if your my friend then i will let you in....and have a talk...... :-)
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
any suspect?
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
10 Aug 10
It doesn't matter to me if I know you from before or not. I love guests even if we haven't scheduled their visit. I will invite you in, give you something to drink, maybe a meal. I will take you around my kibbutz and show you what it is like and tell you a lot about it and answer your questions. Then we will have a nice talk about what's happening to you and what's happening to me. If you need a place to stay overnight also welcome.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Aug 10
hi meirhu,,,,,, thanks for your polite response. it would be a nice experience to spend some times with you once in a life. have a nice day.
• Singapore
16 Aug 10
hi shibham, What an interesting question, I feel tempted to reply.... Firstly, your picture would definitely not look like you because it is 2D and you are 3D Secondly, even if you managed to eliminate this problem and make your photograph looked exactly like you, I would still be suspicious because all foreigners looked alike to me. Last time I can't even tell the hollywood stars apart.
@shibham (16977)
• India
16 Aug 10
hi moon..... tempted? but why? hhaha... clever answer, so i think myself to create as a character in a 3D comic. no..... there are something different between Caucasian and Aryan. i am an Aryan. yes, i also have to suffer a lot to recognize some particular Hollywood heroes. have a nice day.
@shibham (16977)
• India
20 Aug 10
• Singapore
16 Aug 10
I mean I couldn't resist responding to your topic because it is so interesting. As long as they are foreigners, Caucasians or even Asians, makes no difference to me. I'm quite bad at recognizing faces. haha....
@dianajen (77)
8 Aug 10
AS a newest member of this site. I hardly new you, the first thing to do would be to let you in our house. Have you set in a chair and offer you a drink or something then began a conversation with you. That's an initial reaction of someone you don't know because even if we hardly knew a person we entertain to show some hospitality.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
hi friend. noticing your posts i have found that u are newbie here and its a genuine matter that u cant understand me at the very first step here in mylot. but whatever the matter is.... i am highly appreciated that u are ready to welcome me being to more friendly heartened. its nice to hear. have a great day always.
@dawnald (85046)
• Shingle Springs, California
18 Aug 10
Ask you if you prefer coffee or tea...
@shibham (16977)
• India
20 Aug 10
thanks... i like both. its your choice. hahaha...
@bunnybon7 (51404)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Aug 10
it would likely scare the h#ll out of me. since i hadnt invited you. if id invited you it would be fine. id be glad to see you, but, did you know that the Boston Strangler here in USA got access to womens homes that way? by saying he was there to fix something or he knew of them from some friend, etc.?
@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Aug 10
no bunny.... i think there are polices around your home.....i am running from your door step... hahaha
@vanity666 (259)
• Spain
8 Aug 10
hmm...i would say hi to you and ask you what do you want, i guess o.o
@shibham (16977)
• India
8 Aug 10
i would say you to offer me a cup of tea or coffee as i am so tired searching your residence. are you ready to offer me? hahaha....
@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Aug 10
thanks....
• Spain
8 Aug 10
yeah, i'd give you a cup of tea and something to eat, but in the door i think, not inside my house,lol
@akopoaysi (740)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
i think i will ask you some questions first before i will let you inside my house. dont get me wrong okay but in this world nothing is safe. have you seen the news? there are always crimes. and havent you watch the news that some robbers using social network sites to identify who is that person, where he lives and what is his current location at that time. i need to make sure that you are really a friend of mine in mylot before i will entertain you. if things go wrong. maybe i will ......
@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
100% agree with you. you should not permit a stranger to enter in your house. its very good decision. i like it. yeah let me know what is the best way to convince you that i am a real friend of you made through mylot. have a nice day.
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
Excuse me, do I know you? Of course this will be my words to you.
@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Aug 10
okay.... try to be familiar with me through mylot. have a nice day.
8 Aug 10
I would take you to the computer room and switch on one of the computers for you then we can do some mylotting together :D How does that sound? :P
@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Aug 10
hi parrot... i think that is a great idea to mylot with a mylotter from same computer. it sounds cool. not weird at all... take it easy. have a nice day.
8 Aug 10
rofl I just realised that sounds sooo weird xD