if you found out husband's phone contact still keep ex-girlfriend's number?

Australia
August 8, 2010 5:03am CST
If you found out husband's phone contact still keep ex-girlfriend's number, and the detail is "my love", perhaps he forgot to delete it, what would you do? would you talk to him? I would choose talk to him, otherwise I would get really upset.
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@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
Initial reaction of woman is really to get jealous simply because she loved her husband. But maybe there's a reason why he's keeping it,probably because of any important reason just like work related. Why not open what you felt to your husband, try to have an open communication to your husband so that misunderstanding won't happen. I hope your marriage will be destroyed on because of this contact information.
• Australia
9 Aug 10
It's not me, hehe, I just posted a discussion :) Thank you for your idea!
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
8 Aug 10
There's only 2 reasons the husband would have his ex's number. 1 he is still with her. 2 he plans on getting back with her. There is no reason you should have an ex's number. They're an ex. They don't even need to talk to each other. And don't believe the "We're just good friends." Guys don't do friendships with ex's. Once you're out, you're out.
• Australia
9 Aug 10
I entirely agree with you!!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
27 Sep 10
Hi. angeladang. Welcome to myLot! I would ask my husband about this. How long have you guys been married, if you don't mind me asking? I would talk to him about this. This does not seem too nice right here. I would be mad, because he has no business having this telephone number into his phone. He should have deleted her number a long time ago.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
Surely i would asks my husband about it rather than having some doubts and leaving myself guessing. And open conversation is better than giving ourselves self explanation. Welcome to mylot and enjoy mylotting
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
I would talk to him about this matter! Well it's okay for me if he has the number of his ex. I wouldn't feel bad as long as my husband is not doing anything or keeping secrets from me.
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
The issue there is not that he still keeps her number, but that she's still named "my love". But don't get mad instantly. If it's a recent relationship, it could be that he just forgot to edit the name. But if not, then you have something to talk about and settle.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 10
Hi, If I really find my husband still contacting his ex-girlfriend and no intimate message is going on, I may just take things easy. They still can be friend and not really a big issue,unless, the message is bit"out of point",then I may question him at the right time and when he is in good mood. Of course, don't accuse him for betraying you. Listen to his explanation,then slowly monitor his action for a period of time,then only you will find his truth.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
8 Aug 10
Yes, talking to him is the only way to get any idea about what is going on, so if I was ever in a situation like that, it would definitely be the first thing I did, for sure!