Failed Marriage and lying spouses

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In the past year my marriage failed. He cheated on me as well as left me without saying anything to me for over a week about it. He still has yet to be honest about the cheating. He decided to tell me that he was leaving me over the telephone. He has yet to even come face-to-face with me. He has for some reason blamed me for everything and takes no responsibility for his part in it at all. I know now that it can not be all my fault. He and I had a 9 year relationship and out of the 9 years 7 of those years we were married. He decides less than a month after our 7 year wedding anniversary that we were done. Well, he could not even be honest about that at first since in one conversation it went from needing time to think to divorce. I hope one day that he realizes that he made a mistake and changes for the better. I actually hope that he is happy and that nothing bad happens to him. I know that he admitted to me on the phone that he hurt me on purpose and that really sucks. Any one that that has happened to I am sorry and it totally sucks. I know that it is now a struggle for me to trust people and i for a while thought that nobody would ever want to be with me and that i was just unlovable. As well as if someone did decide they wanted to be with me that they would just end up leaving me and hating me.