Should you beat her up?

August 9, 2010 4:16am CST
Hello friends, my girl sometimes makes me feel like loosing my mind. She does things that sometimes I think the only solution is to beat her up or something. Although I have never tried to do that before, sometimes I feel like it when she dares me that I cant do anything. I would like to know how to handle that kind of pressure. What should I do?
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25 responses
• United States
9 Aug 10
Casnocking; I had a guyfriend who was in your exact place. However one day when she dared him he snapped and actually did it. He ended up breaking her nose and she called the police on him. To make a long story short he did 18 months for assault, was civially sued for over 30,000 for the medical bills, pain and suffering and loss of wages (as she took time off work to heal)and is now making payments of $1,000.00 dollars a month to her and has a criminal record that will follow him where ever he goes. Do not make this same mistake. If what you are saying is true then you need to leave this girl. She does not love you and will make your life miserable if you give in to her daring temptations. It may be tempting to smack her but hitting a woman is wrong no mater what the scenario. Leave her and move on she could end up costing you more then you bargained for.
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10 Aug 10
Thanks a lot amanda. I really appreciate it.
@nobbsy123 (851)
• Australia
10 Aug 10
If you beat her up I hope she presses charges and sends you to jail. Leave her.
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@webzap (884)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Beating up a woman even if she drives you to do that is unthinkable. A woman is a woman and women are weak. By doing so you will lose your manhood. Are you sick?
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@tap0991 (2766)
• United States
9 Aug 10
you have some issues dude. Beating your girl is just wrong and only weak people do it. I suggest going to some therapy and break up with her.
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@khulith (38)
10 Aug 10
what ever reason you have would never be enough for you to beat her up, i don't know how to give you a specific advice, for you haven,t discuss this thing about her that annoys you so much.but if you really love her don't dare do any kind of violence that will set in your mind against her.
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• China
9 Aug 10
cool down ,man. hit a woman is not a man should do.
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@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
9 Aug 10
If she's teasing you like that, then it means that she's not in love with you, sorry.This would be an endless cat/dog fight and nothing more.Show me where and when violence has solved a problem.It's just running from the problem because the problem is deeper.Think: if she really liked you, would she provoke such reactions?You're in lust, not in love, dears.
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@preppy (28)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Aug 10
if she does that will catch you attention just ignore her and dont pay attention to her... if she notice that you dont have reaction probably she will think that you dont care of what she's then she will stop and probably ask why... reverse psychology works sometimes..
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@med889 (5941)
9 Aug 10
Beating a woman is against manhood so I will never advise you to beat her though how many mistakes she is doing, what I will rather suggest is that you just ignore here completely and you will see how her reaction will change to the better.
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9 Aug 10
Is this serious?????????
@maplegeo (126)
• India
9 Aug 10
Beating woman is not the real solution for your problem..You should talk to her and find some other way to end your pressure..
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
9 Aug 10
My advice. I think you 2 should rather leave this relationship. Believe me, the day you lift your hands towards her, you will regret for the rest of your life. It is wrong of her to dare you like that, but i know you can only take so much. Get out while you still have your dignity. TATA.
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• Portugal
9 Aug 10
what kind of things she says? if she is hurting you emotionally like saying you value nothing or always saying bad about yourself to you you must break up bcs she doesnt value you. dont beat her bcs thats not a good solution. if you are not happy with her just leave her. we all live to love and be loved. we never know when we will die so dont waste time with stupid people. also thinking about beat her is not good also of you. just talk with her and tell her to stop it. if she doesnt then break up.
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• United States
9 Aug 10
First of all, the solution is NEVER to "beat her up or something". Yes, what she is doing is wrong, but hurting someone physically (or emotionally) is never the answer. The best advice I can give is to end the relationship. If it's bothering you enough to consider hurting her, leave. The relationship probably can't be saved at this point.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
11 Aug 10
Hi, casnoking. I think that you need some serious help, dude. Never beat on a woman no matter how much she tempts you. Don't get so stressed out with her being aggravating towards you. Violence is never the answer!
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
11 Aug 10
You need a few sessions in anger management and a new girlfriend, in that order.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
10 Aug 10
Break up with her.
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
10 Aug 10
NO way. Don't beat her up NO MATTER WHAT. Talk to her. If it comes to worse LEAVE her.
@cajimenez (452)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
The only solution is break up with her .. You're sick..
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• United States
10 Aug 10
do you love the girl
10 Aug 10
yes....