Do you allow anyone to change you as a person?
By dianajen
@dianajen (77)
August 9, 2010 9:28pm CST
I am often told by my mom to change my attitude because i always am tardy in doing household chores. Now I do household chores but i do have my own methods. My mom is not contented with the way i do, she wants me to follow her ways and I did. The problem is i'm not fast as she is and I can't be that good. Why can't she understand it.
3 responses
@med889 (5941)
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10 Aug 10
Even my mother is like this she believes that if I stop losing my temper on small things then I might be a better person so I think she is trying to change me but I do not have any problem with it as far as it is a good thing for me and my personality.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
I also feel the same sentiments. That is what I always complain with my mom, I always told her that I will do things in my way and my own style and method. But just like your mom she would say it would easier and much faster. But I dont find it that way. That is why sometimes if she wants me to do things at home I would always see to it that she is not around.
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
10 Aug 10
Because she is your mother, she thinks she knows best. My mom is like that too, maybe even worse.
As far as changing myself as a person.. No I won't change who I am for anyone. But being tardy is not who you are as a person. Everyone has good and bad qualities about them. It's good to work on your bad qualities to improve them. I have a lot that I'm trying to work on.. I'm still the same person though. 
As far as changing myself as a person.. No I won't change who I am for anyone. But being tardy is not who you are as a person. Everyone has good and bad qualities about them. It's good to work on your bad qualities to improve them. I have a lot that I'm trying to work on.. I'm still the same person though. 