my daughters are studying and surfing late hours ,and late riser

@akn1961 (1034)
India
August 10, 2010 2:44am CST
my daughters are doing engg and very studious study and surf late hours and they are late riser ,i have tried to convince them but they are not agree ,perhaps they think we are oudated ,later they may get problems ,i do not know how to convince them ,pl help.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 Aug 10
I would have to say that the best thing for you to do is to try to find a way for them to study and surf earlier in the day so they may get tired earlier in the night and will sleep. I am not sure how to go about doing this. Another thought that came to mind is for you to just let them know what the dangers are of not getting enough sleep.
• India
11 Aug 10
that is a normal things new generations so sporting her. and help her. i agree with your daughter. thanks
• Malaysia
11 Aug 10
Hi, Most of the time children are disobeying their parents because they feel that parents only know to give directions but do not understand their feelings and needs. If I were you, I will not be too aggressive when trying to convince them about certain issues. Just talk to them casually and let them know that you understand their situation but they should be cautious for not overdoing it. Children tend to react negatively toward comments from parents, especially when they feel that you are going against them. Make them feel that you still love them no matter what they do, and you don't want them to do what they do now because you love them and want them to be successful in life. Never hide your true feelings when it comes to love. Always let your children know that you really love them, in return they will start showing some respect toward you.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
10 Aug 10
That is the modern trend and many teenagers are falling into the vast internet. As a parent you have to do some checks - 1. First of all you should view the history of the browser the next day to find out what sites your daughters are visiting. I agree that spying is not correct but as a parent you have to do this to ensure that your daughters are not misusing the internet. If you find that they remove the history then there is something suspicious and you have to be strict to their using the computers late. 2. You should ask them to use the computer during the evening hours and keep the study for late hours. This way you can be sure that they are doing the right thing. Many of us study or prefer burning the midnight oil for study. Hope this helps
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
11 Aug 10
Do they have to go to school in the morning? If they do, they should consider whether they are not falling asleep during class. Although studying is good. But they should focus their time during the day time rather at night time.
@pkushwaha (223)
• India
10 Aug 10
Late night surfing is new trand of growing generation its some good & some bad , so you convince