Have you ever experience the pain of hatre to the one you love the most ?
@wildlittlefan (4680)
Hong Kong
August 10, 2010 5:20am CST
The opposite of love is hatre and nobody will enjoy this kind of feeling and emotion.Unfortunately, love and hate is only seperate by a thin red line.To love is so sweet but to hate someone you love the most or you trust the most are truely a pianful experience.It is a painful process to go through and it really is a suffering process.It involves lots of heart pain,non-stop tears,headache result from too much thinking and bitterness.It also distroy your positive view towards this world and many other people in this world although they might not have strict relationship about your experience.A mind full of terrible thought and nightmare during the night will always happen when we are binded by hatre instead of love.May God's garce and forgiveness will always shiine on your face if you are in this situation and I hope that you can release from this bondage as soon as possible if you are going through this process.But for now,at least you can share with us.
4 responses
@namiya (1721)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
Yes, towards my ex husband when our marriage broke up. That was the most painful experience in my life and it affected my trust in people and outlook in life to the extent that I questioned the Lord why he let it happen to us. However, now I am very much aware that God's plans are beyond human reasons and understanding and, "In His Time" you will realize why He allowed it to happen. Looking back now, I realized how the Lord had sent people and created circumstances to help my children and me survive all those trials and challenges and made us stronger and better persons. Hence, whoever is in this situation now don't despair, just hold on to GOD and everything will come out alright or even better.
@namiya (1721)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
Yes, towards my ex husband when our marriage broke up. It was the most painful experience in my life that it had affected my trust in people, outlook in life, and even to the extent of questioning the Lord why he allowed it to happen. However, now I am aware that God's plans in our lives are beyond human reasons and understanding and, how "In His Time" He will let us know why he let it happen. Looking back, I realized how he used people and brought about circumstances that helped my children and me survive those trials and challenges and made us stronger and better persons.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Yes I have experienced hating the one I love most. It was something that I never thought would happen but it did. We dated for almost 6 years and ended it up back in 2008. A lot has happened after that and I just hated the person that once was the biggest part of my life. Its like once upon a time, I knew that person so well.. And now, if not enemies, we're practically strangers.
After all the pain, hatred, regrets.. I am still thankful for the memories, for it made me realize that I made the right decision of letting go. And for God who enlightened me and gave me strength.
Best of luck
