You dont love him/her anymore?

August 10, 2010 9:04am CST
Leave now or later...your still gonna hurt him/her none the less. To prolong something that is inevitable is a practice of futility.To make him/her happy by staying while becoming miserable yourself is not deal in a relationship.Something bound to give. Either you separate as friends and both be mature enough to accept the situation or be enemies.First option is better. In a relationship,both parties must be satisfied with how things are going.When the other isn't happy anymore...then maybe,your just not compatible.TO force something is to break something. A broken heart or a broken face...it's both your choices. You cannot force anyone to love you and you cannot force anyone to stay...that isn't love.
2 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
11 Aug 10
Hi dear, I think the old and beautiful definition of 'love' to be modified. As and when time passes, the meaning of the word love is getting more complicated. People are much more concern about selfishness and not even 'try' to some compromise for others matters. If we/you value other persons problems and issues, such things can be easily managed. Here no body is ready for even an open discussion or not even trying to understand each other. The current generation is just want to enjoy and not even bother others issues. If they could mange to handle such situations or understand other peoples real facts, these kind of broken issues and face broken cases can be never be around. If you cannot tolerate the other person, why can't you talks. If there is love and affection, it will get resolved easily. The true love has the potential to it. Value other people’s sentiments and you also will get recognized. If you have problems, come together and try to resolve it. Find how much you partner can help of it. Instated of just fighting, just come out with nice solutions and remedies for the issues. If 2 people can sit and discuss their problems, it is so easy to settle down. But if we are strict on your side and arguing each other, parting is the best and easy way to come out. Regards, Thank-s
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 10
i agree with you my friends...i know it`s hard for everything who is break when they love too much with his/her couple...but love is make our life enjoy if she/he can love us too..