Classic break up

@jadmari (125)
Philippines
August 10, 2010 6:14pm CST
I love you enough that I don't want to hurt you anymore. Did your Ex tell you this? How did you feel about it? How do you see love then? This line is overly used by some people. It is such a cliche. Sometimes if feels so confusing. Why do some people say this line whenever they want to get out of a relationship? It is so classic! What is the point of saying this line if one partner dumps the other? It still hurts right? Love is really indeed complicated.
3 responses
@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
That is the most poorest excuse to break up with someone. If you were brave enough to start a relationship with him/her, then at least have enough courage to tell them how you feel and end it in a good note. If someone breaks up with you and uses this line, then he is lying, he doesn't love you at all, don't get fooled by how good that line sounds. =))
@jadmari (125)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
hi babz, good thought. Well no matter how good that line sounds, a person should not be fooled by it because sometimes it is scripted. :)
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@choconut (297)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
it sounds like he has someone else. He's telling you that he love you that he doesn't want you to get hurt just so you could let him go and let him be with someone else. He's being guilty over the fact that he had fallen out of love and found someone else. Typical break up line that doesn't make sense, they could just simply tell you the truth even though it hurts. Because it'll be more painful is you found out that he got someone else after breaking up with you a few days or weeks ago. That's such a lame excuse!
@jadmari (125)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
It doesn't make sense right? I totally agree that its better to tell the truth even if it hurts. Its better to say "I don't love you anymore because I'm inlove with someone else."
• United States
11 Aug 10
These words are difficult to hear especially coming from someone who apparently does not love you as you love them. On the brighter side best that a person respects you enough to break up with you then let's say cheat and or pretend and you find out later therefore, that would hurt more. By the way I see you are fairly new, welcome - welcome to myLot
@jadmari (125)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
Thanks for that welcome! I agree. It would be more hurting if you find it later that the person who dumped you, cheated and already have another partner right after the partner.