Loving a friend and loosing her

@mauricel (113)
Philippines
August 12, 2010 2:49am CST
After a short term relationship in a complicated set up, I then realized that it is really hard to had a relationship with a friend. Before when I had a broken relationship all I have to do is to go back to those people in my past for me to recover. Now, the one that broke my heart is a friend in my past. How would I start over if the she belong to the past that I always go back whenever I was hurt? And it is hard to open up on how I really feel with the friends I have which are her friends too... I don't want to complicate with our friends but I am having a hard time starting over. I know what to do but I can't move.
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@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
I'm sure you have other friends.. try to open up with them too. Stories like yours are one of the reasons why falling in love with a friend is so hard. But it is better that you have tried because you would've spent your life thinking about 'what might have been' if you didn't. true friends are hard to find. I hope eventually you sort out your differences and you rebuild your friendship.
@mauricel (113)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
Thanks. I am hoping that in the future our friendship will be back. But for now I know that is not possible, coz I am still coping up with the pain.
• India
12 Aug 10
It is very hard to loose your friend if you love her so much. If you loose this way then i am sure, specially i won't feel like making new friends. What is the use of making friends if you going to loose your friends this way. I think no one want to loose their loving so easily. Friends means till your last breath. It's not a game, where you got to play and leaving when ever you feel like.
@mauricel (113)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
I agree, with you. Being in pain deeply I still think of the times and happy moments we had. Those wonderful memories keeps me going on hoping that maybe someday our friendship will still remain.