Do you think women are hard to understand ?
@wildlittlefan (4680)
Hong Kong
August 12, 2010 9:22am CST
As a man ,we will always encounter women in everywhere in this world.But frankly speaking,I don't quite understand women since they will always care about small tiny things that men will never pay attention with.Theyare always moody and sometimes their emotion can be changed in a second.You can do lots of things to please them but the result may not be what you would expected.I am not against women because sometimes they are just so lovely and beautiful as well.I post this topic jsut because I don't quite understand them.If you are woman,you can share with me .if you are a man,you can share your own opinion too.As long as we will respect each other,then we can get to know women in a better way.
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19 responses
@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
hello wildlittlefan!
Women are complex, that's true..but so are men. I mean, women are made physically and physiologically different from men. Men finds women hard to understand and vice versa. But to really get to the heart of this discussion, men only fails to understand women, because they try to understand them in the context of their own specie.
Women are moody, but not always and not every woman you meet is moody, i can assure you that. But the fact that they become moody and so fickle minded is cause by either hormonal changes, unexpressed feelings and women are flexible, that's why they can easily change their minds in a split of a second.
Women cares about tiny things to make up for men's inattentiveness to minor details. Just imagine if both men and women don't pay attention to small things, so women exist, to co-exist in harmony with men.
You know, women acts moody sometimes just to get what they want. But if you really take the time to get to know a woman, you will find that a woman is usually an open book, if you know what to read for. you just have to know how to read her..when you do, you will be amazed by what you will find.
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
15 Aug 10
Thank you for your response and your response is quite useful when compare to all others.I think the tough part for men to get to know women is that : they can schange their mind in just a second.Well,if so how can a man understand her since she change so fast and so unpredictable.I am not sure if we can read a woman as an open book and perhaps only women can do so.I think it is better for a man to read more about women in psychological books rather than read women by themselves.At least there are something bsolid that we can learn from psychology about how women think in general.I think it is hard to understand evryone including a man anyway since every person is so unique and need to understand in a unique way.It is always easy to be an observer ,rather than get to know the person individually.Because once you will involve in any relationship in understand people,you will probabaly miss the objectivity from an observer's point of view.Human is actually so complicated and I don't think there will be one theory or scinece that can get to know all human.Well,what do you know about women? Frankly speaking,sometimes I think I know them well but another second,I think I don't know them at all.Anyway,get to know how a woamn think is still interesting thing to do.Have a good day.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 10
well..i am a girl and a women to be..it;s harder to understand men..women care for small things because they thinks everything is important..even dates are important to them..(one of the thing that guys always forget)..and we cherish every moment in our lives..our moods actually depends on our day..if it turn out to be ok..why should we pull a long face??..well..like some say..men and women are total different but our similarity is we need each other to complete our lives
@maidangela7349 (1191)
•
13 Aug 10
Have you heard the one about the man who was so good God said to him he could have any wish he liked. He said well I live in england but I would like to visit america and I don't like flying so can you build me a road across the atlantic.
God said oh dear that would not be good for shipping, the fish or the environment can't you think of something else. So he said okay god please then explain to me how a woman's mind works.
God said would that be two lanes or four
@alokkumar803 (325)
• India
13 Aug 10
Ya hard to understand but not when your in simple relationship like friendship..when you are in some serious and deep relation then it becomes hard to understand them..
@clevengay (129)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
men should understand women..mood swings and our emotions are affected by our hormones..especially when a woman's menstruation is coming..our hormones changed a lot and that causes women to become irritable..sometimes, women wants attention from their man but i know multitasking is a very difficult thing a man can handle..
@asiregar (864)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
13 Aug 10
I am a man and have been married almost seven years with the woman I love, does not mean I can understand the feelings of women tapi seluruh I appreciate and respect by giving equal opportunity to progress and develop as a fellow creature god, this is my personal opinion
@bryeunade (70)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
Yes, especially if your married to one. They say men are from mars and women are from venus and I believe this. They seem to have a world of their own just as we have to them. So the next time you try to figure her out, remember your not alone.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Aug 10
Hi wildlittlefan,
Yes you can say it's hard for us to understand women. There are some things common and somethings just unique! On the other hand, it seems they seem to understand us much more easily. Coz we are straightforward? 
lol. It's not easy to maintain a girlfriend too, i guess. And if they are the go spend money types, you betta watch out friend coz they are pretty hungry to digest our money. 
Anyways.. The best thing you could do to understand them is to think like them. All the best. 
lol. It's not easy to maintain a girlfriend too, i guess. And if they are the go spend money types, you betta watch out friend coz they are pretty hungry to digest our money.
Anyways.. The best thing you could do to understand them is to think like them. All the best. @ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
For me not all women because if you are the type of person is good then they are understanding.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
Good day to you Wildlittlefan,
With reference to your main topic, though I am a woman, I dont think that women are hard to understand. Maybe women are just misunderstood due to their moods and actions. Hence, if you really understand the woman and try to apprehend the mood, quandary will be avoided. And as you have said, respect is what each others need.
Happy Mylotting.
@maomao20716 (171)
• China
13 Aug 10
yes ,i agree ,sometimes i also don't understand what woman's thinking ,they can change their after one second. but maybe this is their common character ,they care small things ,food prices and other petty things. but i really admit ,with them ,you can know more information about what is happening in the mall or supermarket or some places else, don't you think it is funny when you are eating around the table and chatting with these trivial things
responsibilities on man's shoulder maybe bigger than on woman's ,but the life cann't be beautiful without woman.
why we sometimes can not understand woman ,because man and woman care about different things but all connected to life
@BigTips (304)
• China
13 Aug 10
Yes, in most cases, it seems that the women are more moody than us men. You see, they lay too much emphasis on small tiny things, even if it is unnecessary to pay attention to such a not important situation.
So, compared with us men, they may tend to get angry or confused easily because they can't concentrata their energy on one thing.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
12 Aug 10
Yup friend some times they won't understand our feelings and our sayings also. It happens why because as a human beings some times we will also do such type of mistakes. But still woman will do bit more compare to men.
@tonanana (91)
• China
12 Aug 10
as you can see,the emotion of women is sensitive.but,if a girl present this complicated sensibility to you,at least it means that you are important to her.
then i wanna say,though women have a sea of thoughts in their minds,actually they are very very easy to be pleased.the key is just,show your sincerity in face of them. but it's very hard to get to this extent.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Aug 10
After bing in love for the past 6 years and being married for the past 2 years. I still feel i have not understood the love of my life.
@juneramir (334)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
Most of them....They take an issue that doesn't belong in one place and place it in another, then expect you to acecpt that, amongst many other things. Also, the issue of jealousy amongst them. (these are how men described women)
Women is hard to be understand - if everyone thinks so. But, you know, if you learn to love them and accept them by nature you will surely realize how important it is to have them. Indeed, a man can't live without a woman.
Good day! :)
@sra1reddy (34)
• India
13 Aug 10
well my lotter yes you are right in this point . because women do not give a chance to understand their character by others. This is one of wonder in this world . and thinking also very different in many times and many places so our brothers and boys are must be taken a care with women.thank you my lotter
